So you're just gonna ignore my question?being a "ho" means having sex, yes?
So you're just gonna ignore my question?being a "ho" means having sex, yes?
No. If he doesn't know you cheated, he doesn't know how it feels to get cheated on. Both are forms of revenge, but the fact that you didn't come clean about cheating means the betrayel still continues.Umm...is cheating so he could know how it feels and cheating to get revenge not the same damn thing?
lol, why dudes get so butt hurt about a female cheating, like did y'all get done wrong and this shyt bringing up painful memories or something? some of y'all taking this shyt personal
Breh isn't that really common in the military? Either those in the service or their spouses back home?
) In either case, it's a shocker and it's hard to take the situation head on. Especially with kids, we have 4. But, the thot made her bed, now she gonna sleep in it.is it safe to assume ur a little unstable? I've sat here and watched u talkin in circles this whole thread. My observation from what u been saying is simple tho. Ur selfish and disloyal.Yes, I got that.
In the past I cheated because I came across guys that I liked, that liked me, and asked me out on a date/wanted to hang out, and if I wasn't doing anything we did (hang out/go on a date.
You did anal huhFor real though....I agree with you. I probably would be saying the same thing if someone else told me this
My thought processes on a LOT of shyt was off back then. However, the first time we got it in he asked for head and I told him exactly what I told you and for some reason or another he seemed to understand and never asked or tried to get it out of me again......
I did more than one stupid thing concerning this particular guy....
It was truly a lesson learned.........
At the end of the day everybody has at least one thing they regret.
the sex was amazing and for a little while I felt vindicated so on one hand the experience was great however.... he took me through the feels and that's the one thing I have pending against me when it comes to me and my husband's past.

Welcome to the Coli. Enjoy your stay. Your cousin is floating around here somewhere. Also did you check the snake thread cause a lot of dudes are getting called out for being cheaters on that one. Guess you missed it.Thread full of hypocrites. Both men and women make excuses for cheating. And i would honestly judge soneone harshly if they cheated "just because" or "cuz she was bad". That to me means you have no empathy and you lack self control and it takes nothing but a fat ass and some titties to ruin your family or break someones heart. That is no excuse to be proud of. People have revenge sex out of hurt or they cheat because of relationship problems or a honest dissatisfaction with their partner. It's wrong but I would respect it more.
I have lurked this site for years.( I just don't post). I have seen way to many cheating threads from men with very few people criticizing them but a woman says she revenge cheated and y'all are up in arms? Wtf??
Welcome to the Coli. Enjoy your stay. Your cousin is floating around here somewhere. Also did you check the snake thread cause a lot of dudes are getting called out for being cheaters on that one. Guess you missed it.
Bruce wayne. You're Kate Kane aren't you? He's your cousin on his momma's side. I don't agree with anyone cheating. shyt ain't right which is why I asked if folks felt guilty. I personally don't like steak and prefer salmon. I think also it confused people at the young woman's justification. When she explained it to me I understood.My cousin? And yes I did see the snake thread. That thread is more about fukked up shyt people do to each other rather than focusing in cheating. And check one of the earlier posts in this one. Dude says he wants chicken strips every now and then and gets dapped. Woman says she revenge cheated and it's WWIII.
Yous a bytch for thinking like that.My wife cheated on me. shyt scarred me seriously. It honestly made me want to dog the shyt out of women. But when I think of doing something like that, I know deep down I'm disappointing my mother.![]()
I have one more question. Why did you stay? I mean surely the trust was goneBack when me and my husband were just boyfriend and girlfriend I cheated ONLY because he was cheating and I wanted him to know how it felt......
shyt made me feel tons better....sad but true.
I can't speak for everybody in this thread, but me personally, I don't respect cheaters, no matter the gender. However, the difference between most men cheating and most woman cheating is that men accept responsibility for what they did. When a man gets caught he will say i fukked up and i'm sorry. I seldomly heard a man telling his girl he cheated because of something she did. Woman on the other hand always have an excuse, like "you didn't pay enough attention to me", "You hurt my feelings" "You were away too much" When in fact they cheated for selfish reasons and should have either left or stay es faithful. And that is a pattern you can observe in almost all situations. A woman is never at fault, it's always somebody else, and if there is nobody else it's just that time of the month, she can't help it and you're supposed to accept that. Just look at this thread, out of the two woman that admitted to cheating, one blames her man and the other says it's because men just buy her things for being herThread full of hypocrites. Both men and women make excuses for cheating. And i would honestly judge soneone harshly if they cheated "just because" or "cuz she was bad". That to me means you have no empathy and you lack self control and it takes nothing but a fat ass and some titties to ruin your family or break someones heart. That is no excuse to be proud of. People have revenge sex out of hurt or they cheat because of relationship problems or a honest dissatisfaction with their partner. It's wrong but I would respect it more.
I have lurked this site for years.( I just don't post). I have seen way to many cheating threads from men with very few people criticizing them but a woman says she revenge cheated and y'all are up in arms? Wtf??
as if it wasn't her responsibility to say "no thanks, i have a boyfriend". And while the first story sounds somewhat understandable at first, things don't really add up if you have a closer look at it. Not only did she catch feelings for the other guy, she never admitted to what she did, even though they broke up, then started dating again and even got married. Enough chances to fess up and start with a clean slate.