have you ever fell for someone you didn't find physically attractive?

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MESS @ PANTHRO :dead:
But yeah, that's the problem I'm having now. He's good for dirty talk and then actually talking as if we were friends but I'm not attracted to him like that anymore and I don't wanna hurt his feelings. I'm scared I'm gonna try my hardest to push it back into my mind and then we'll be in bed not doing anything bc he makes me dry up like the desert :to:

welp. there's your answer right there. you gotta get out of this one :francis: be straight & upfront and don't make it seem like you're giving him hope for the future when you cut him off cause that'd be fukked up.
 

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as an artist that looks at people and their nude bodies a lot, I feel like, while peoples appearance varies a lot, people all pretty much have the same structure. I'm past the point where someones eyes being a few mm too close or them having bad skin invalidates them from my affection, especially if I like who they are on the inside
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This is actually pretty interesting. I don't believe I've ever heard someone say this before.
 
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This is actually pretty interesting. I don't believe I've ever heard someone say this before.
on the internet, it normally goes in the opposite direction
you know, looking at polished pngs all day so much, to the point where you feel like that's the standard or that's what you deserve
pretty people are great, but being ugly doesn't make you less worthy of companionship imo
 

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yes i wanna hear more stories! quick spinoff: i fell hard for somebody i thought was attractive:takedat: but all of my friends clown me bc apparently he's butt ugly to everyone else :yeshrug:

my eyes be beholding man, idc
 

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describe his appearance :ohhh:
tall, um idk how to really describe his build because he was muscular (those arms...those fukking arms :feedme:) but somehow someway he had a huge gut.
anyway lol, big nose and huge lips and my homegirls would always tell me his height was his only saving grace but idk man he was sexy to me

his D was on point too but that's another post:sas2:
 

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on the internet, it normally goes in the opposite direction
you know, looking at polished pngs all day so much, to the point where you feel like that's the standard or that's what you deserve
pretty people are great, but being ugly doesn't make you less worthy of companionship imo
I agree, no one is perfect. All these maked up IG "models" perpetuate the narrative that the standard of beauty looks like one thing too.
 

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a few times :ehh:
as an artist that looks at people and their nude bodies a lot, I feel like, while peoples appearance varies a lot, people all pretty much have the same structure. I'm past the point where someones eyes being a few mm too close or them having bad skin invalidates them from my affection, especially if I like who they are on the inside

This I for one love the natural differences and "flaws" if you want to call them that of women. I hate how social media has shoved everyone into to thinking there is only one standard of beauty. And the standard is totally fake for 90 percent of the people.


I want a woman with a darkspot here or there, or a little pudgy, maybe a big or small nose or forehead.
 

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it's just difficult bc we were flirting heavy so i can't really just "friend zone" him out of nowhere, know what i mean? like i was basically super into him before we skyped.
Just make yourself too busy to really talk then, like space out responses and in a week or so you can be moon monster free. This always works for me when I'm uninterested.


:beli: Just tell him the truth
 

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on the internet, it normally goes in the opposite direction
you know, looking at polished pngs all day so much, to the point where you feel like that's the standard or that's what you deserve
pretty people are great, but being ugly doesn't make you less worthy of companionship imo

Someone out here loves us. :blessed:
 
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