This some bs
Have You Ever Gotten Cheated On?
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This some bs
Pool_Shark
Can’t move with me in this digital space
I suspect it's happening now but I why have no way of proving it. I've tried everything. I tell myself I'm being paranoid but I keep seeing red flags and am just waiting for the slip up. It sucks cause I can't even be close to her anymore cause this has fukked me up mentally and I think about it all the time.
Pool_Shark
Can’t move with me in this digital space
I wish it was that simple. It's different married with 2 kids. Whole life is basically built together plus there's plans for the future and for our kids. Plus I have no concrete evidence.
VFib
All Star
I'm sorry you're feeling this way. That sucks. Is there someone you trust who you can speak to about WHY you feel these suspicions (behavior, etc) ? Maybe they can help you make sense of them, and figure out if it's all in your head or if she is, in fact, cheating. Or you can have a heart to heart with her about feeling like you two are not as close as you used to be. Maybe some things may come out during the conversation.
Pool_Shark
Can’t move with me in this digital space
nah I'm just dealing with it on my own cause it's stuff I don't feel comfortable discussing with my family. Don't really talk to anyone else. We have fought about a lot of the stuff that bothers me cause I can't stay quiet about things. She denies everything. Then you can't keep hounding someone about this shyt cause it comes to a point where you look crazy and might even push someone towards actually cheating if they're not already. I don't know sometimes I think I'm just being paranoid but then like I said certain things are red flags to me. It's cool though I'm just going to continue what the plans we have are and if something happens it happens. shyts to important to let something like that derail our goals.
agnosticlady
AL loves da kids : )
Everybody should remember that first time. I remember mine.
Went grocery shoppin Saturday morning to prepare a dinner for 2 that night, went and rented a cpl movies.
Got home, cleaned my apartment, waited, called her phone, but got the voicemail.
She finally came clean a week later, and told me she was wit her daughter's father that night. This was in 2001. Her excuse was that we were just hangin out, so she said she technically didnt cheat on me
We still talked and eventually started to "go together" and in 2003 and 2004, we had a son both yrs. Got married in 2005, but didnt last 6 months. I couldnt put up with petty shyt she got mad about, like gettin mad because I bought tires for my car, when I had to do a lot of drivin between Ohio and Illinois. I made the mistake of marryin her just because we had 2 kids. Dont ever do that. You have to want to do that regardless if kids are involved or not. I just wanted to try to make things better for my boys.
Got remarried in 2009 to the girl i chased all thru high school, had a son last March. A nikka still be havin insecurities though. My wife is waaaayyyy prettier than my 1st wife, and that is part of it. I be checkin her car for fast food cups in the passenger cup holder, condom wrappers, hotel ink pens and key cards, etc. I even hide behind the recliner she sits in and creep up when i hear her phone vibrate so i can see who the text or phonecall is from.
#GMB
Are men dominate in your family? I'm asking because you have three sons
Yeah.. but I never cared for any chick I was with, until the girl I been with now, who been totally faithful, even though im not the married type and she's cool with it
street heat
merchant of death
agnosticlady
AL loves da kids : )
Only once, during my senior year in high school. id been dating this guy since the end of sophomore year. He was my first everything, and I really thought I loved him, until I found out he had started sneaking around with my (at the time) best friend, and was planning on breaking it off with me. Turns out he been more attracted to her from day one, and only bothered with me in an effort to get closer to her. It worked
Sit in a corner alone on prom night while your ex and ex-bestfriend dance in the moonlight brehettes
............That's whack.....I can't imagine what that feels like
agnosticlady
AL loves da kids : )
Why do you think that she is cheating? What is she doing that makes you feel like she is cheating?
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Logic Is Absent Wherever Hate Is Present
I love going back through these threadsEverybody should remember that first time. I remember mine.
Went grocery shoppin Saturday morning to prepare a dinner for 2 that night, went and rented a cpl movies.
Got home, cleaned my apartment, waited, called her phone, but got the voicemail.
She finally came clean a week later, and told me she was wit her daughter's father that night. This was in 2001. Her excuse was that we were just hangin out, so she said she technically didnt cheat on me
We still talked and eventually started to "go together" and in 2003 and 2004, we had a son both yrs. Got married in 2005, but didnt last 6 months. I couldnt put up with petty shyt she got mad about, like gettin mad because I bought tires for my car, when I had to do a lot of drivin between Ohio and Illinois. I made the mistake of marryin her just because we had 2 kids. Dont ever do that. You have to want to do that regardless if kids are involved or not. I just wanted to try to make things better for my boys.
Got remarried in 2009 to the girl i chased all thru high school, had a son last March. A nikka still be havin insecurities though. My wife is waaaayyyy prettier than my 1st wife, and that is part of it. I be checkin her car for fast food cups in the passenger cup holder, condom wrappers, hotel ink pens and key cards, etc. I even hide behind the recliner she sits in and creep up when i hear her phone vibrate so i can see who the text or phonecall is from.
#GMB
I'll never be the same...she created an alter ego...
I'll never be the same...she created an alter ego...
