Have You Ever Had A Female Family Member That Was Getting Her Ass Whooped By Her BF/Husband?

[Wildhundreds]

This. Male presence is key dudes in my fam always press new nikkas the females in the fam date off top at fam functions. we haven't had a problem since young when a cuz and boyfriend we found out beat on her she was hiding it but this situation she couldnt..once we found out we took her phone and texted him to meet..when he arrived at said spot put the hands and feet of God on this man and prayed over him ..after he gets out the hospital she went back to him...we cordial now but I never fukked with her after that and never got involved in domestic fam shyt again but that type situation has never happened since, I believe females in the fam probably tell that story to those that they date

Y'all did right.. If she go back, she go back.. Men hiding their weaknesses behind that not getting involved shyt, because you learn how to stand up for your own family by standing up for the women in your family..

 

[Buckeye Fever]

My cousin used to get beat by his wife.

A couple years ago, he bought a sega and some games so we could play like we did when we was teens. She came home drunk and told us and my other 3 cousins to get the fukk out. We left and I came over the next day and he had on shades. I asked him "What's wrong wit ya eyes? Why you wearin glasses?"

 

[Big Boss]

im done

not going back to prison

 

[Dak Pickscott]

Stay out of it the female usually goes back anyway

 

[Oztradamus]

They’ll get the Sonny Corleone special.

 

[Mowgli]

I have heard that some of my female relatives had hands put on them by their significant others in the past.

My position is that I stay out of their business because more than likely, my relatives are going to still deal with those people and that pretty much happened.

I don't have the time nor energy to play bodyguard for people who choose to deal with violent people. If they wanna put up with abuse, then that's on them. Of course, I wish none of my family members become victims nor perpetrators, but at the end of the day, it is their lives to live...

As far as I know now, everyone that is in a relationship is happy with their significant other, so....

*shrugs*

What if it's your mother and someone who's not your dad

 

[Rell84shots]

I have heard that some of my female relatives had hands put on them by their significant others in the past.

My position is that I stay out of their business because more than likely, my relatives are going to still deal with those people and that pretty much happened.

I don't have the time nor energy to play bodyguard for people who choose to deal with violent people. If they wanna put up with abuse, then that's on them. Of course, I wish none of my family members become victims nor perpetrators, but at the end of the day, it is their lives to live...

As far as I know now, everyone that is in a relationship is happy with their significant other, so....

*shrugs*

I tell my sisters that they get 1, if they go back then I'm not going to keep fighting the guy because you clearly care more about him than yourself.

 

[Bonk]

The bf/husband would need to sign his own death certificate.

 

[Mowgli]

If she's willing on wanting to stay with the dude, she's not going to go running to y'all for help when she gets her ass beat.

My blood cousin, my father's older brothers son went to jail for this. Female family came over said "my boyfriend beat me up...." My uncles and my cousins went and tuned that dude up.

Long story short, my cousin did about 10 years in memphis and that relationship is beyond over and done with. The abuser hasn't written, called, texted, liked a picture on Facebook, driven by, nothing. And he's alive. He just got fukked up bad.

My cousin did his bid, he believes it was worth it, as does the rest of the family. Dude was gone a long time, but we don't have them DV issues in our family.

Did he have priors?

Ten years is a long time for assault and attempted murder ?

 

[Stuntone]

Once a man puts a ring on her, it's their issue.



A lot of men are 6 feet deep trying to save the unsavable

 

[Wildin]

Did he have priors?

Ten years is a long time for assault and attempted murder ?

I don't know if his prior history. I know when he did the shyt, dude went to local jail for like 8 months before they had a trial and he ended up going to state pen for the long haul. He got out a Lil early with time served but was still gone like 8-9 years when it was all said and done.

 

[HE_Pennypacker]

We had a family friend who apparently had a boyfriend that used to beat her. Well her male cousins were real goons and got wind even though they lived far.

Well lady and her man went back home to Africa for some reason and the cousins were waiting; kidnapped him on the way back home late at night, hung him from a tree and set him alight. Cops knew and didn’t give a fukk because they knew the family, guy’s dad was also a scumbag and only had had his legs broken because of doing the same shyt.

She came back and moved on with her life.

I only got told about this when I was like 19

 

[Commish]

I tell my sisters that they get 1, if they go back then I'm not going to keep fighting the guy because you clearly care more about him than yourself.

I feel that you shouldn't even have to tell them, but glad you did because now they know where you stand.

Also, like you said, if they don't value their own life, then what would be the point of getting involved and risking your life and freedom?

 

[Grand Cru Boo]

Yes, a girl cousin of mine. Her baby dad was getting at her and the fam pulled up to handle it. She eventually had 2 more kids with dude and stayed. At this point, if it Is not my daughter, I don’t even bother because they usually stay.

 

[hotbeezie]

Once a man puts a ring on her, it's their issue.



A lot of men are 6 feet deep trying to save the unsavable

Bruh I was just about to say this, man I got too many people I know with whole families dead, because they were trying to protect their sister/cousin/aunt from nikkas the family already told them was any good.

Im not catching a bullet over no bullshyt.