Have you ever left a good woman?

Vandelay

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No sense in being unhappy. She will move on.
True. I'm game planning decoupling all the shyt we got together. Probably will do it at the start of the year. Just hard putting foot to ass when there's nothing glaring that's wrong. There IS stuff wrong though, it's just not the usual catastrophic shyt. I'm just not feeling it anymore enough to work through the issues we do have.

EDIT: Smoove edit
 

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@Mirin4rmfar so are you still with your girl? Have yall moved yet? Or are you plotting rn?

:mjlol: we are still together I moved. Gave in after a bunch of emotional up and down on her end. Gave it a chance but its boring up here for now. I am not feeling this place like that.
 

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Strongly considering leaving my girl. Best relationship I've ever had. Just not feeling it anymore, and it's not just a tough last month or 2, last 6+ months I just really haven't been feeling things. She wanted to be married a year into our relationship. I'm still healing from scars of my previous relationship, and her forcing the issue any and every time it's convenient isn't helping matters.
How old is she?
 

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Yep. Had a good woman walk away from me two years ago for another guy because I wouldn’t commit. You don’t realize what you had until it’s gone. You grow from it and try not to make the same mistake with the next one

Timing is everything. Sometimes the universe will present us with the right time but we’ll make the wrong choice nullifying that timing.
 
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We all have each other temporarily on this Earth.

I'm grateful to have had a solid woman at various points.

If time stood still at our best moment...there is no point in living.

I've seen good people get destroyed because they refuse to learn their lesson and move on.

Let her go. There's always someone better, as well as a better you.
 

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Nope, they always left me, but they always wanted me back.
 

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Yea. Unknowingly I brought the best out of her through my actions. I had no idea how good she was. I was blinded by my selfishness and chose the glitter (big butt and a smile), thrill and superficial appeal of a thot I met in the club.
 

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Im really struggling with this right now. She is a great woman, by far the best relationship I've had, but there's some days I'd just rather be on my own. She wants to get married, but I don't know if I'm ready for that right now.
There's days I contemplate breaking things off, then I remember there ain't really shyt out here and that my life is objectively better with her in it. Also a part of me believes this is just the reality of relationships. I care for her a lot, but I can't stop this nagging yearning in the back of my mind.
 

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Im really struggling with this right now. She is a great woman, by far the best relationship I've had, but there's some days I'd just rather be on my own. She wants to get married, but I don't know if I'm ready for that right now.
There's days I contemplate breaking things off, then I remember there ain't really shyt out here and that my life is objectively better with her in it. Also a part of me believes this is just the reality of relationships. I care for her a lot, but I can't stop this nagging yearning in the back of my mind.
Why would you rather be on your own and what is the nagging yearning?
 

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Im really struggling with this right now. She is a great woman, by far the best relationship I've had, but there's some days I'd just rather be on my own. She wants to get married, but I don't know if I'm ready for that right now.
There's days I contemplate breaking things off, then I remember there ain't really shyt out here and that my life is objectively better with her in it. Also a part of me believes this is just the reality of relationships. I care for her a lot, but I can't stop this nagging yearning in the back of my mind.
Aint shyt out here, bruh :francis:
 

Admiral Kali

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Why would you rather be on your own and what is the nagging yearning?
Im really a lone wolf at heart, always have been. Lotta time spent with her I could be putting towards some of my hobbies.

We compatible as far as values/morals, deep convo, she a great cook etc. But we dont have much in common far as interests and a few social issues. I enjoy her company but there's kinda a constant lull
 
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