Have You Ever Lost A Friend Over A Chick?

[1-8-7-Skillz]

Fortunately not, but a lil time ago a bytch almost caused me & a couple brehs' friendship to turn sour.....
Things started out pretty good tbh, but I didn't know the fukkery I was gettin into....
Thing is I'm normally a strictly ONS type of shyt dude, I can't really fukk with all this relationship bs and all the shyt that comes with it. Saw a couple dudes in my school get all up in their feelings because of some hoes and I was always like "Dumb ass retards, this is what you get from relationships"

I met her one day in the city and we were instantly on good terms & shyt. So the next couple days we was textin & hangin out a bit here & there. She was pretty cool to hang out & smoke with, and the looks were so I was like "ok I'll smash and maybe hang out with her again a couple times , she seems to be chill"
Things was workin out pretty easy, no stress and I was sure this could become a nice lil friends with benefits type of shyt.

Then one day I was gonna meet up with a couple homies this day and she was with me so I was like "Aight im gone meet a couple of my homies, you wanna come over too ?" she said yeah so I took her with me and thats when the problems started. When my dudes first met her they was like "damn she fine as fukk, you sure you dont want a real relationship ?" and I was like "nah I'll see what happens but no I dont think so". Unfortunately this bytch started showin her true colors soon. She was MAD manipulative. The next couple days she started hangin out with me and my brehs more & more and thats when the real dumb shyt began. She started to make eyes to all the homies, joking with them and making them feel like she was into them. Dudes seriously went out of their ways to pick her up with their cars and shyt and I was like , everytime we hung around. First she focused on one of my brehs who she just told all her emotional blablabla bullshyt and again tried to make eyes, causing him to be her fukkin private taxi & shyt He was drivin me home one day and I just had a lil conversation with him, tellin him that something was definetely wrong with her and just told him how she manipulates him & shyt. Dude fortunately saw what the fukk he was gettin into and stopped making a complete ass of himself. But my other breh was really the icing on the cake. Dude was FULL BLOWN under this girls spell, meeting with her privately in his free time and telling shyt like "damn she's so fine and such a deep & cool person, I dont think what you did to her/your relationship with her is what she deserves and shyt Dude was completely caping for her tryna save her By this time I stopped hanging out with her, only my one breh was still under her control Then one day me & my breh talked to him and told him that he was just makin an ass outta himself, being friendzoned just to listen to all her shyt and it finally clicked with him. I'm glad this shyt shyt is over because my dude was constantly gettin angry at us over this fukkin bytch, shyt was




One another note two of my best homies fell out a couple months ago over some bytch. They are backin to talkin to each other again but shyt isnt the same anymore, fukkin shame to let these hoes fukk up your friendship so bad..




Met another girl that was really the love of my life last summer but shyt didn't work out for long (I'm really not made for relationships) but fukk it I'm back on my usual grind and I'm perfectly fine with it. . This way you dont gotta deal with all this bullshyt and Im happy with that

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

I had a dude who I thought was my friend fukk my shorty during a "break" time we had. Essentially we were together, but decided on taking a break to figure shyt or (long distance relationship...I had just moved) He got in her ear, playing the role that "he was my good friend" and knew all about me and my secrets. In other words, he would tell her since he knew me that he knew I was a bad guy, I wasn't the dude for her, and then proceeded to snitch on me and tell her shyt I had did in the past. And he fukked her, which got me in my feelings. But I manned up and kept it moving


Fast forward 7 years later (aka now) they both on my dikk as they see the kid doing his thing. Once they found out I got accepted to Stanford University School of Medicine, they wanted to add me on social media and act like shyt is sweet. Dude even had the nerve to ask if I can help his current fiancé out with making the right moves so she can make it to med school. Saw my IG pics of the Stanford campus and wanted me to help is his girl out. And then my ex shorty trying to become my friend now on FB when she heard I'm at Stanford and living in California.

I ain't tripping but it's crazy how they play you and then try to come back when you bounce back. Shorty didn't believe in me when I grinding for my education and didn't think I would make it. But I did, and jokes on her. That is why I always tell youngins to stay focused and grind hard, those that matter will be with you no matter what...and those who don't will expose themselves.

how old are you? i went there for undergrad, did my MBA at penn...forget the past, let's clique up and get this money together

 

[Kasper KArr]

how old are you? i went there for undergrad, did my MBA at penn...forget the past, let's clique up and get this money together

Haha I'm old enough!!!! I for some reason cannot send messages, perhaps because I don't have enough posts. But send me a message I'll tell you how old I am!! Lmao

But I dig that! ain't no sense in worrying about the past. Seems like you've done VERY well for yourself. You're the person I need in my circle!! Let's do this, I'm gonna need someone with your experience to be on my board of this Biotech company I hope to start before I graduate from here! Haha but for real, put me on! I still don't know campus, Palo Alto, etc! I wanna take advantage of all the resources!!

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

So they argue back and forth for a minute, then they take it outside. Dude was toying with him, talking shyt in between punches.

"I don't know why you out here, look at your eye I know you can't see shyt"

"I can still see you right there, I'm good"

"Oh you see me? Can you see this?"

*punch*

"Ahhhhhh"

Breh screamed every time he got hit

Oh shyt....this cracked me the fukk up.

 

[The Mad Titan]

Me and one of my closet friend fought over a chick once way back in the day.


One of the dumbest things as a man that you can do.

 

[Jasmine20]

I keep my relationships away from my friendships

I don't bring my women friends around my male friends ever.

Don't really see the point in them meeting.

So if you're in a serious relationship with a woman (you see yourself marrying her one day) and you have a best friend that you knew for most of your life, you still wouldn't see the point of them meeting or want them to meet? If not, why?

I had a dude who I thought was my friend fukk my shorty during a "break" time we had. Essentially we were together, but decided on taking a break to figure shyt or (long distance relationship...I had just moved) He got in her ear, playing the role that "he was my good friend" and knew all about me and my secrets. In other words, he would tell her since he knew me that he knew I was a bad guy, I wasn't the dude for her, and then proceeded to snitch on me and tell her shyt I had did in the past. And he fukked her, which got me in my feelings. But I manned up and kept it moving


Fast forward 7 years later (aka now) they both on my dikk as they see the kid doing his thing. Once they found out I got accepted to Stanford University School of Medicine, they wanted to add me on social media and act like shyt is sweet. Dude even had the nerve to ask if I can help his current fiancé out with making the right moves so she can make it to med school. Saw my IG pics of the Stanford campus and wanted me to help is his girl out. And then my ex shorty trying to become my friend now on FB when she heard I'm at Stanford and living in California.

I ain't tripping but it's crazy how they play you and then try to come back when you bounce back. Shorty didn't believe in me when I grinding for my education and didn't think I would make it. But I did, and jokes on her. That is why I always tell youngins to stay focused and grind hard, those that matter will be with you no matter what...and those who don't will expose themselves.

Wow I'm happy for you! Congratulations!

 

[prince_peoples]

So if you're in a serious relationship with a woman (you see yourself marrying her one day) and you have a best friend that you knew for most of your life, you still wouldn't see the point of them meeting or want them to meet? If not, why?



Wow I'm happy for you! Congratulations!

Don't wanna get married, and even if I was see no point in them meeting.

Them meeting one another does what for either relationship?

I also never want to meet the chick I'm dating friends. Iv had bad experiences in the past with ex's women friends, so I avoid that now.