Virgins, yes. brehs that struggle to get buns? Yes. Incels? No. I hang around with mostly black brehs.
At some point most people that I know who struggle with women, just accepted the reality that they'll struggle with women. Myself included. No manosphere shyt is going to help, it just makes things wayyy worse.
It's is, what it is

, that's life.
I think what makes most black men different or a little less entitled is the fact that we never got shyt handed to us in the first place. We grew up poor, struggle with that. Struggled with school. Struggled to get an adequate job. Struggled with relationships.
We already know nothing comes easy for us, so we either have to fight for it or just accept it.
On the flip side, I do know dudes that are womanizers that are having an absolute miserable time in life. So there's pros and cons to everything. Womanizer breh looking at me and envy me for my freedom, while I envy him for his ease in ability to maneuver around women, some envy other brehs that are able to maintain stable, health relationships. Everything is pro and con in life.