have you ever played capt. save a chick, or hoe?? advice.

[Blackking]

Do you have any stories or methods of saving a chick??

Either upgrading a broke chick .
Or educating or making an ignorant chick culturally aware... fixing her mind.
Or wifing up a hoe and showing her how love is supposed to be and how guys should treat her and why she can value herself?

Advice on some methods?

 

[Silkk]

Advice is don't do it

 

[CinnaSlim]

If you are gonna help someone, do it out of the kindness of your heart. Don't expect anything back. Because when they don't reciprocate, you'll end up upset.

It's different, if you are not emotionally tied to a person. Then you can make a deal or arrangement and it becomes business, not personal.

 

[Sk3ptical]

dont do it breh

 

[The Mad Titan]

Yeah don't do it, especially if its a lady you are feeling. If she does change and drops you then you just made a good woman out of coal for someone else, if she doesn't change and you trying to save em then you are going to be frustrated.


If you want to help because you want to help then do that. But make sure you don't expect anything in return and if you do let them know up front.



Advice: Don't do it

 

[Blackking]

not a chick I want to date.

 

[Rawtid]

Yes. Like Cinna said do it because you're kind and not to get anything in return. People are ungrateful.

 

[Dr. Narcisse]

Do you have any stories or methods of saving a chick??

Either upgrading a broke chick .
Or educating or making an ignorant chick culturally aware... fixing her mind.
Or wifing up a hoe and showing her how love is supposed to be and how guys should treat her and why she can value herself?

Advice on some methods?

It never works breh.

Dont learn the hard way

 

[At30wecashout]

Goes back to the one girl I fell for strongly in my lifetime.
She had a breakup with her boyfriend of two years, who was also my dawg (she didn't know, but he dropped her because she was boring and indecisive)
Days of crying and shyt, sitting around depressed between school sessions. I was driving to her house, driving her over to my house, bought groceries,
made her meals, let her cry on my shoulder, a whole buncha bullshyt.

Some years later, every time she had the chance, she still picked another man. I was trying to be her rock for the longest, and I was never an option.
Don't do it. A woman in distress needs a firm punch in the arm and words of encouragement, then leave it at that. Whether she is grieving over
something small or feeling down, a woman who doesn't already love you will never reciprocate like another man would. You have your pahtnas back,
he signs on for when your shyt flops. Women aren't quite that merciful when the shyt crumbles.

It is like the man that soothes his woman when she ails, but when he cries for the first time in front of her and her respect plummets.

Disclaimer: Before I get hit with the misogynist shyt, it isn't all women, but it is a trait that we never know a woman has until our shyt collapses before our
eyes.

 

[CinnaSlim]

Goes back to the one girl I fell for strongly in my lifetime.
She had a breakup with her boyfriend of two years, who was also my dawg (she didn't know, but he dropped her because she was boring and indecisive)
Days of crying and shyt, sitting around depressed between school sessions. I was driving to her house, driving her over to my house, bought groceries,
made her meals, let her cry on my shoulder, a whole buncha bullshyt.

Some years later, every time she had the chance, she still picked another man. I was trying to be her rock for the longest, and I was never an option.
Don't do it. A woman in distress needs a firm punch in the arm and words of encouragement, then leave it at that. Whether she is grieving over
something small or feeling down, a woman who doesn't already love you will never reciprocate like another man would. You have your pahtnas back,
he signs on for when your shyt flops. Women aren't quite that merciful when the shyt crumbles.

It is like the man that soothes his woman when she ails, but when he cries for the first time in front of her and her respect plummets.

Disclaimer: Before I get hit with the misogynist shyt, it isn't all women, but it is a trait that we never know a woman has until our shyt collapses before our
eyes.

I'm sry you went thru that, brehbie. Not all girls lose respect for a man when he cries. (I know u said that already). Some girls find it sexy-ish. Some chicks are nurturing. I guess it depends on the girl and what you are crying about.

 

[Blackking]

Goes back to the one girl I fell for strongly in my lifetime.
She had a breakup with her boyfriend of two years, who was also my dawg (she didn't know, but he dropped her because she was boring and indecisive)
Days of crying and shyt, sitting around depressed between school sessions. I was driving to her house, driving her over to my house, bought groceries,
made her meals, let her cry on my shoulder, a whole buncha bullshyt.

Some years later, every time she had the chance, she still picked another man. I was trying to be her rock for the longest, and I was never an option.
Don't do it. A woman in distress needs a firm punch in the arm and words of encouragement, then leave it at that. Whether she is grieving over
something small or feeling down, a woman who doesn't already love you will never reciprocate like another man would. You have your pahtnas back,
he signs on for when your shyt flops. Women aren't quite that merciful when the shyt crumbles.

It is like the man that soothes his woman when she ails, but when he cries for the first time in front of her and her respect plummets.

Disclaimer: Before I get hit with the misogynist shyt, it isn't all women, but it is a trait that we never know a woman has until our shyt collapses before our
eyes.

 

[Blackking]

i was just thinking about this chick i see in my building.

I thought she was just some random rat, but then we had a conversation and ... we had a few conversations and she's pretty smart with a good personality.
But then I discover that she was put out of her crib by her man who chose another chick
After she was basically taking care of this nikka a few years ago, lol. I'm sure she made mistakes, but it's because she probably doesn't know any better
Plus She's bad as fukk .. like fat ass slim waist, 8/10 face bad... .. but I don't think knows her worth... because she knows I have a girl... .and I feel maybe i could trick her into being a sidebytch

So I instead wanna save her... and put her up on shyt. because she really hasn't done shyt but go to work and stuff. Never really left the state. I think her selfesteem is low too, despite being sexy.

 

[Claudex]

If you are gonna help someone, do it out of the kindness of your heart. Don't expect anything back. Because when they don't reciprocate, you'll end up upset.

It's different, if you are not emotionally tied to a person. Then you can make a deal or arrangement and it becomes business, not personal.

Yeah don't do it, especially if its a lady you are feeling. If she does change and drops you then you just made a good woman out of coal for someone else, if she doesn't change and you trying to save em then you are going to be frustrated.


If you want to help because you want to help then do that. But make sure you don't expect anything in return and if you do let them know up front.



Advice: Don't do it

Goes back to the one girl I fell for strongly in my lifetime.
She had a breakup with her boyfriend of two years, who was also my dawg (she didn't know, but he dropped her because she was boring and indecisive)
Days of crying and shyt, sitting around depressed between school sessions. I was driving to her house, driving her over to my house, bought groceries,
made her meals, let her cry on my shoulder, a whole buncha bullshyt.

Some years later, every time she had the chance, she still picked another man. I was trying to be her rock for the longest, and I was never an option.
Don't do it. A woman in distress needs a firm punch in the arm and words of encouragement, then leave it at that. Whether she is grieving over
something small or feeling down, a woman who doesn't already love you will never reciprocate like another man would. You have your pahtnas back,
he signs on for when your shyt flops. Women aren't quite that merciful when the shyt crumbles.

It is like the man that soothes his woman when she ails, but when he cries for the first time in front of her and her respect plummets.

Disclaimer: Before I get hit with the misogynist shyt, it isn't all women, but it is a trait that we never know a woman has until our shyt collapses before our
eyes.

realest shyt y'all ever wrote. Mah nikka @Blackking pay attention 'cause this that real.

 

[Claudex]

i was just thinking about this chick i see in my building.

I thought she was just some random rat, but then we had a conversation and ... we had a few conversations and she's pretty smart with a good personality.
But then I discover that she was put out of her crib by her man who chose another chick
After she was basically taking care of this nikka a few years ago, lol. I'm sure she made mistakes, but it's because she probably doesn't know any better
Plus She's bad as fukk .. like fat ass slim waist, 8/10 face bad... .. but I don't think knows her worth... because she knows I have a girl... .and I feel maybe i could trick her into being a sidebytch

So I instead wanna save her... and put her up on shyt. because she really hasn't done shyt but go to work and stuff. Never really left the state. I think her selfesteem is low too, despite being sexy.

Sounds like a girl that deserves more than just being a side-chick breh. In fact, realizing she's a side-chick may just deepen her self-esteem issues, so really if you wanna help her then I suggest you just be an actual friend. Don't drop your current girl for her, that'll be a blunder. But maybe if you become an actual friend to her she'll realize there's more to men than just the fukkery.
And that's a big maybe, but she sounds like she's worth the effort.

 

[At30wecashout]

I'm sry you went thru that, brehbie. Not all girls lose respect for a man when he cries. (I know u said that already). Some girls find it sexy-ish. Some chicks are nurturing. I guess it depends on the girl and what you are crying about.

Yea, the unfortunate thing is, after my feelings for her were disregarded, I haven't been able to feel the same about any woman in the aftermath.
It is a case-by-case thing, but I would advise any man who feels for a woman that doesn't feel the same to abandon ship. He will guaranteed put in
more than he will get back. Altruism is fine, but when we we tend to forsake our responsibilities to comfort a woman, so in the end,
we sacrifice money, time, wellbeing, and opportunities because we can't see beyond a woman's misfortune.

Will never stick my neck out for another woman again. If I wouldn't do it for another man, no woman gets that treatment either.