first off, i wasn't abused or anything
second, my father had a reputation of being a ladies man
but there was never any suggestion he did anything weird
third, all of my siblings seemed pretty average/normal with what they did
so...??
i remember i had a little girlfriend- we would sneak away to kiss
and i would pinch her while we kissed, and see how much i could hurt her until she'd want me to stop
sometimes she'd be crying and still wouldn't tap out
but afterwards it'd be fine, and she'd sneak away with me again the next day
i mean

that's not normal whatsoever
some of the things i say in the bedroom are also pretty wild
as a little kid, i ran my mouth nonstop

and one night the adults at the card game were teasing me
an older man suggested i wouldn't be successful with the ladies due to this chattering
and my mother had siad i'd be okay, if i remembered to keep talking in the bedroom
because men who went silent during sex were creepy
not that she said anything about "dirty talk" but i can remember..
when i hit puberty, etc,, from the beginning i had the assumption: women liked a man who would talk during sex
last,,i know culo blasting isn't a popular topic on coli (word to
@Yung Yogurt)
i hadn't really thought about anal sex until a woman offered it to me randomly
i was like

well, let's see..

i ended up liking it, though
and have initiated it with most of my girlfriends since then
but if you would have asked me at age 16,, i would have been like

then

anyway...
i don't spend a lot of time dwelling on where the freakiness came from,
but it crosses my mind on occasion