Have You Ever REFUSED The Friendzone?

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I've never understood the idea of the "friend zone." If you want to date the chick, then why even allow that?

The only way the "friend zone" happens if you hang around her and lollygag like you want to be her best friend. Dudes do that to themselves.

Dudes are so thirsty that they put themselves through weeks, months and years of frustration hanging around a chick acting like their "play brother" because they don't have the courage to let his true intentions be known. And dudes are afraid of losing her attention if it doesn't turn out well.

But if she's not interested in you as more than a friend, then why even give her attention if that's not what you want?

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Great post.

I have way too much pride to be friendzoned. I make an advance, she rejects, I go about my life. Thats it. Friendzone shyt should be relegated to HS and college kids. When you dont know any better.

fukk I look like talking to a woman about her colleague, peggy in accounting, who took the last donut this morning.


Naaaaaah.
 

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Nah there are legit male and female friendship however 99 percent have a expire date.

One of my closest female friends , we talked all the time , grew up together etc., then she got married and well ain't heard a word from here since like last year.
thats what imean, theres a time and a place, but once you find that person for you, generally others go iout the window as ya girl aint gonna wnat u hanging wit chicks and vice versa
 

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Yup exactly I actually salute chicks who drop their "male friends" when in a relationship


thats what imean, theres a time and a place, but once you find that person for you, generally others go iout the window as ya girl aint gonna wnat u hanging wit chicks and vice versa
 

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Yup exactly I actually salute chicks who drop their "male friends" when in a relationship
if they respect dude they will. every dude knows every other dude is going for that, asnd they just playing coy. Girls dont understand this or pretend not to, i havent figured that one out yet tho I am leaning toward the latter.

I got in a huge fight wit my boys girl over this. me and mine were drinking with him and her and he brought up how she has a friend who always trying way too hard to impress her. told her I dont play that shyt...

long story short she walked off pissed and ended the night early. my girl knew better
 

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Girls know, especially since many have ugly friends who are girls yet gasp have no male friends.

Dudes sit around hoping for that Netflix puzzy,ugh I'm drunk can you pick me up do you kind if I just crash the night type puzzy. Or omg he cheated im a wreck I just need someone to talk to puzzy..



if they respect dude they will. every dude knows every other dude is going for that, asnd they just playing coy. Girls dont understand this or pretend not to, i havent figured that one out yet tho I am leaning toward the latter.

I got in a huge fight wit my boys girl over this. me and mine were drinking with him and her and he brought up how she has a friend who always trying way too hard to impress her. told her I dont play that shyt...

long story short she walked off pissed and ended the night early. my girl knew better
 

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Great post.

I have way too much pride to be friendzoned. I make an advance, she rejects, I go about my life. Thats it. Friendzone shyt should be relegated to HS and college kids. When you dont know any better.

fukk I look like talking to a woman about her colleague, peggy in accounting, who took the last donut this morning.


Naaaaaah.

:laff: that type of generic but realistic convo description has me dyin
 

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I don't play that friendzone shyt.... That's an insult.... :scust:


If a bytch try to friendzone me, we beefin. :yeshrug:



I actually got beef with some hoes right now who tried to friendzone me...


This shyt was inspiring fam:salute:

I haven't been friend zoned in awhile cause I'm aloof af now, but I will definitely be doing this the next time it happens
 

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Yeah i don't even allow the whole friend zone now..if it ain't going to happen then oh well moving on to the next. i don't got time to waste giving her the attention she needs and i get nothing in return all the while she fukking with other guys too? nah man my pride ain't letting that happen.

Few years ago there was a woman i was a fool for..at first we had a little bit of a thing building up but of course she starts to get distant because the ex was back in the picture. I let her throw me in the friendzone because this dude wasn't shyt and i thought she would come back around. It didn't last long though, after about two months, i said fukk that and cut her out my life. Funny enough she didn't contact me again in the beginning but shows back up all angry and jaded at me as soon as i got into a relationship. that had me like :what::childplease::camby:
 

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Im certain this one chick friend zoned me.:francis:

But every time I stop text/speaking to her she make it her goal to contact me non stop :aicmon:

And she know I'm tryna fuk :mindblown:

She heavy into the church so maybe that's why she playing :yeshrug:

Ima block shawty she keep playing tho
 

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Great post.

I have way too much pride to be friendzoned. I make an advance, she rejects, I go about my life. Thats it. Friendzone shyt should be relegated to HS and college kids. When you dont know any better.

fukk I look like talking to a woman about her colleague, peggy in accounting, who took the last donut this morning.


Naaaaaah.

:mjlol:
 

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Kind of, this was about a few months ago I was feeling her and she was feeling me. She was willing to fukk and all that but didn't want anything "serious" she still wanted to talk to other people and at this stage in my life the fukk friend thing isn't what I'm looking for and with all of these STD's going around I'm not trying to fukk any woman I'm not EXCLUSIVE with so I just told her that wasn't my mind state and pretty much threw her in the bushes...



She still texts and calls me all the time, especially since I have a new woman. Probably going to block her and be done with it
:sas1:not comfortable in ya current relationship
 
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