Have You Had Any Experience with Women Being Beaten?

[Cynic]

Nope but I overheard someone telling a story about this congolese woman beating the breaks off some british cac

How you gonna start some sh!t with a girl who grew up in war torn DRC

 

[Ashley Banks]

My aunt (not really my aunt just my moms best friend) was in an abusive relationship, she said she was afraid to leave because she thought he would kill her and when she did leave, he did try to kill her, multiple times.

Some of the reasons a lot of women stay are because they’re ashamed, they think all men will do the same (stick to the devil you know), they’re afraid it’ll be worse if they try to leave, they don’t want to be alone, they think they deserved it, or they have no where to go.

 

[Serious]

Some girls like men who beat em

I've never experienced a woman who consistently got that ass beat but I remember my boy laid the smack down on his girl because he thought she was flirting with me

He apologized for his behavior and they broke up

She still texts me and I never gave her my number

I guess she did need her ass beat

So I was thinking about this earlier in the week. And i've come to the conclusion that it's probably all some people know.

Think about like this:
Imagine growing up, hearing your mom and dad fight every night. Now imagine you hear your dad beat your mom, maybe even once in a while you see your dad lay hands on your mom.

This kinda of normalizes the situation. It's all some people know. Is it really far fetched to see people mimic chaotic relationships that their parents were in. So essentially dysfunction breeds dysfunction.

Normal, non abusive relationships may come off as boring( for a lack of a better term or phrase), in contrast abusive relationships seem normal.

 

[Memorial Stadium Piru]

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[Boogie]

bytch should've had my money

 

[ezrathegreat]

 

[❤Aԃɾιαɳα Rσȥαყ ❤]

I've never been physically abused, but i've been emotionally and verbally abused before.
I have women in my family and even friends who have been physically abused though.
One of my best friends is actually in a relationship rn with an ain't shyt nikka who beats her for the smallest shyt.
Wrong food? Beaten. He doesn't like how she's dressed? Beaten Think she talks too much? Beaten
It's like she realizes it's wrong, but she loves him too much to leave, and unless yu have been abused before yourself, then yu won't understand.

I think the main reason men beat women is because they're insecure with themselves and think they have something to prove by beating up a girl who 9/10 can't or just won't defend themselves. There's a reason why ppl say 'He can beat up women, but will run when faced by a man'.

 

[Serious]

At a family event a couple years ago my uncle just started shoving & choking his wife out of nowhere

I love my uncle but that nikka has some issues where he constantly needs to be in control and thinks any slight comment is someone testing his masculinity

It might be a family wide thing, because my grandma had 9 kids with 7 men & she spent time in a mental institution for something no one will talk about. My mom and her siblings were raised by their grandmother, who they called "Mama" and called my grandma her first name, and they all had strained relationships with her until she died. Two of my uncles were crackheads and one went missing in the 80s (assumed dead) and the other one got stabbed to death by his transsexual lover. My grandma was AMAZING to her grandkids tho, in retrospect probably trying to right her wrongs before she passed.

My grandma was a thot as well, even into her senior citizen age, but she only had 1 child. Man..........

 

[Warren Moon]

I had to put my hands on my pops for doing that shyt to his new wife. I never liked that cac anyway.

Put him on the list and get him out

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Yes I do.... and my knuckles still hurt.

Spoiler

Just joking, nothing’s funny about domestic abuse

 

[MMA]

Yeah happened once while my friends and I were in philly with his girl sister

in a span of 20 minutes, we were playing COD, then stomping a nikka out then getting cursed out by the beaten sister

I'll be minding my business from now on

 

[❤Aԃɾιαɳα Rσȥαყ ❤]

My aunt (not really my aunt just my moms best friend) was in an abusive relationship, she said she was afraid to leave because she thought he would kill her and when she did leave, he did try to kill her, multiple times.

Some of the reasons a lot of women stay are because they’re ashamed, they think all men will do the same (stick to the devil you know), they’re afraid it’ll be worse if they try to leave, they don’t want to be alone, they think they deserved it, or they have no where to go.

After awhile yu start to feel insecure about yourself and think 'well damn, I probably did deserve to be called that', or 'If my own relatives say it then it must be true'.
Then yu go to school and have people talk shyt aabout yu too, emotional aabuse is actually worse then physical abuse because physical wounds can heal, emotional wounds take years to heal, and sometimes they never do. Even if yu get a 'sorry' yu still know that one day yu might slip up or fukk something up and then get cursed out and berated.

 

[Donny]

Happened to a close family member of mine and I was ready to kill the nikka responsible nikka ended up apologizing to me dude was type weird and when I was younger my moms old boyfriend would try some shyt with my mom but I always intervened and carried a bat on me dude deadass tried to fight me too but my older sister got some goons to go see that nikka no respect for abusers man but it’s only so much you can do until the person being in the situation completely steps away intervening might make it worse

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

I have heard that statistically the most dangerous time for a battered woman is when she tries to leave.

It's just so surreal to me b/c everybody in my family is so close-knit.

It's my sister and myself, mom and dad, my uncles and aunts, all my cousins, on both sides of the family. We all still go to my grandmother's house for the holidays, we always go and see each other at least once a month. We Skype and text...

Somebody would die. If I didn't blow ole boys brains out, one of my crazy ass family members would. My cousin fukked up a dude in Atlanta when one of our other female cousins got smushed in the face by some dude trying to disrespectfully step to her. Maaaan we swarmed that motherfukker like a bunch of fukking ants. Beating him with the heel of a shoe, purses, punches, kicks...lmao!

But I hear that one of the first aspects of abuse is isolating the victim from their friends and family or looking for victims without a strong family system. shyt is fukked up.

 

[Nintendough]

Put him on the list and get him out

Who the fukk are you