Having a son ain't been the curse I thought it'd be

[winb83]

7 months in and it ain't too bad. Don't get to go out as much, nights can be pretty annoying at times, and this nikka can be needy but seeing dude grow up is pretty cool.

He also a big flirt and chicks love him so I ain't even stressing.

This is probably made easier because my BM is pretty cool about the whole thing and she isn't too annoying because she thinks I'm a good dad.

School, work, and him kinda stress me out but it ain't too bad and I'm 'bout to graduate so it's gravy.

oh you just wait if you ever fall out with the child's mother your holiday will morph into hell.

 

[CoolazzFemale]

Awwe, it beautiful to see a man love his son.

 

[Kenny West]

This thread so beautiful bruh

 

[Shogun]

my boy is the shyt...but he startin to repeat me for the first time

my girl walks in and he be like "fukk.....fffffffffukk"

my wife like

I think he's saying truck, we just read his truck book

 

[thoushallhustle]

Awww im due in september with my first boy and im scared as shyt. Reality is sinking in and Im nervous. I cant wait to meet him

 

[aqualung]

I save every receipt of every single that I buy my son, have every text she's sent me thanking me for providing for him, and I give her money orders every time I break off her money for the month.

Finance major, breh. She ain't catching me. Her moms would probably smack the taste out her mouth if she pulled that on me.

She "caught" you when your child was born ALIVE.

Judges HATE to go thru records and receipts. They just order payment of back child support. It's all a rubber stamp to them -- and any double payments are "in the best interest of the child." Sometimes they order back child support DESPITE proof that men already paid in order to send the signal to society that parents of non-marital minors should transact WITHIN the state's child support system instead of skirting it via private arrangements.

rationale:
The government provides (straight couples with) options like marriage and child support.
If couples fail to recognize and exploit options provided by the govt,
then the govt will be kinda slow to recognize AND ENFORCE couples' private agreements and shoeboxes of receipts.

But maybe you will NOT find out by cruel experience.

IIRC, the lookback period in TX is only 3 years.
EX: if a woman waits until the child is 10 years old to put the husband on CS, the max arrears possible == 36 x monthly payment
I don't know about other states.

 

[Draje]

'shrug'

If it happens, it happens. I knew the risks when I was balls deep in them walls. I'm pretty financially stable even before my degree so I should be okay after.

I'd drop a G a month to see my little man and think nothing of it.

 

[Reverend Jesse Jackson]

@ having a son being a curse.

We will be EXTINCT in the next 50 years if we keep this up brehs

 

[Draje]

Awww im due in september with my first boy and im scared as shyt. Reality is sinking in and Im nervous. I cant wait to meet him

Congrats, keep us updated.

Coli Brehs, you can use this thread to show off your seed if you want. I can't help but brag on my fat little nikka and I know y'all ain't trying to gush to your people all the time.

Gotta tell my BM she need to chill out on FBOOK with thinking every dump this dude takes is worth a status.

 

[Buckeye Fever]

Congrats to all

 

[thoushallhustle]

thank you!! I'm hella excited. May even read a few baby books



I give a fukk bruh cause i'ma be in ya shoes later on this year. keep us updated. Y'all having a boy or girl?

Coulda swore he said he was having a son

Got a 2 year old. Terrible 2's aint no joke. That nigguh got that unrelentless energy. Its like a lil jon and the eastside boys video. He hyped for everything. Fav tv show, food, BATHS(), music( bred a fellow silver surfer like his pops). LOL sent his to my girl's ma for the weekend. She didnt last in to Saturday morning. She called us 3 am in the morning , beggin for mercy.

I just thinks it funny how it goes....

 

[Atlrocafella]

Props on the kid breh..but if you ain't married to your BM, go put your self on child support now...Life is sweet now, until your BM flips the script and wanna hit you for back child support that you owe her.

 

[Just like bruddas]

Awww im due in september with my first boy and im scared as shyt. Reality is sinking in and Im nervous. I cant wait to meet him

congrats

 

[Just like bruddas]

7 months in and it ain't too bad. Don't get to go out as much, nights can be pretty annoying at times, and this nikka can be needy but seeing dude grow up is pretty cool.

He also a big flirt and chicks love him so I ain't even stressing.

This is probably made easier because my BM is pretty cool about the whole thing and she isn't too annoying because she thinks I'm a good dad.

School, work, and him kinda stress me out but it ain't too bad and I'm 'bout to graduate so it's gravy.

I cant wait for fatherhood breh

 

[Silkk]

I got 1 on the way, i hope it don't fukk my life up but if it does I will be killing myself fukk that shyt