Yeah...I feel ya OP. My mom is about to turn 50 and could pass for 35 easily, my dad can too. When my beard grew out, a lot of people thought she was my sister. Very attractive woman as well, girls I've dated became openly insecure around my mom for several reasons....
This is one of the reasons its weird. I think its because if they are serious about you they want to measure up to whats in their head seeing a nice, mature acting person who has know u forever , + they know they may look more like Whoopie than pam grier when they are 50.
. One of my girlfriends actually broke down after meeting mom, later that night. Pretty much said there is no way she would look that good at her age and doubted she even compared at that point in time. Then she said I would have a problem settling because that is the standard I've become accustomed to
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A brother was so confused. She admits to having a crush on me it use to be awkward before she told me now its cool. Plus shes since remarried...





