Having grown male family members still living at home

[Silver Surfer]

Bruh its almost pathetic the evolution I have had compared to my other males cousins since 1998

I used to go home home for holidays and we was on similar levels...I look at them niccas like lil kids now when I see them....ALL of them are living with their parents or need support from them in some fashion...Im talking about 28+ men


I cant even fukk with them if I hit the streets anymore

 

[KinksandCoils]

If they are truly trying than who are you to knock them. If not than they are bums.

 

[Silver Surfer]

If they are truly trying than who are you to knock them. If not than they are bums.

What are they trying if they have never moved out their parents home?

 

[NoMoreWhiteWoman2020]

at least them nikkas got parents to live with

lotta my lil nikkas hitting that 25 yr old mark, with both mama n pops MIA. i told my lil nephew (who wants to rap) that he better smarten up and find him a bytch with a house and hit that shyt with full force.

got another lil homie who is sans-parents, who played crazy just to get that SSI check.

:wow1:

 

[nalej]

I got a bunch of male cousins in SF and because homes are so expensive down there most of them still at home. And they do act different most men that moved out.

 

[Silver Surfer]

If niccas was grindin savin up to get a crib...then cool

But I got a cuz who still sleep in the same room i used to sleep over back in the 90's....he still got the same furniture and source magazine rip-outs on the wall....shyt is like the twilight-zone

 

[labrokejames]

I think OP is saying that some nikkas are just lazy and leeching off of their rents. I have a homie who just turned 26 and he's at home with no intentions of leaving. He is in school, however, but still. Imagine never being able to bring a chick through to smash. I aint about that. My mom made me and my sister leave the city just to force us to grow up faster - and it worked.

 

[big bun]

I'd never act like I was better than members of my own family no matter the situation. Above all else that's family.

 

[KinksandCoils]

What are they trying if they have never moved out their parents home?

You don't know people individual situation. You are looking from the outside in. There could be factors you don't know about. Maybe they could move out but might not be financially secure to stay gone. Some people don't want to leave until they know they won't need to come back while others don't plan shyt and be back home in months.

There was a guy at my old job that was like 30 still living at home. He was saving up for a condo. Now he lives in japan ( don't know why though)

For real in most cultures you live at home until your married.

 

[ZEupTWN]

If niccas was grindin savin up to get a crib...then cool

But I got a cause who still sleep in the same room i used to sleep over back in the 90's....he still got the same furniture and source magazine rip-outs on the wall....shyt is like the twilight-zone

stop lyin fam

nikka probably still got the OG slam mag posters from vince carter rookie year with the high top pumas on........prime slam stans know what im talking about

 

[Silver Surfer]

I'd never act like I was better than members of my own family no matter the situation. Above all else that's family.

thats because you are weak

Its not about acting like your better than anyone...its about setting examples

I have cousins that have kids ad they cant even raise their own kids because they live at home

When i come through..all the aunts and elders look at me like "damn I wash Doc was my son"...my mom be swaggin on them at the cookouts when I come through like "yep...thats my boy"..I give the lil kids $5, $10 bills just like my uncles use to do back in the day"

Know why? because I aint with the bullshyt

 

[Silver Surfer]

You don't know people individual situation. You are looking from the outside in. There could be factors you don't know about. Maybe they could move out but might not be financially secure to stay gone. Some people don't want to leave until they know they won't need to come back while others don't plan shyt and be back home in months.

There was a guy at my old job that was like 30 still living at home. He was saving up for a condo. Now he lives in japan ( don't know why though)

For real in most cultures you live at home until your married.

muhfukka I have know them for 25 years+....they are my family I know everybody situation

 

[labrokejames]

Iuno, I guess I come from a fam where we weren't forced to leave but highly encouraged too. Freedom is a wonderful thing and you have none under your parents roof.

 

[Silver Surfer]

Iuno, I guess I come from a fam where we weren't forced to leave but highly encouraged too. Freedom is a wonderful thing and you have none under your parents roof.

I wasnt forced...but I peeped game...mom dukes didnt really tell me about college...my dad did...he didnt even have a dad and his mom barely made it out of HS....I knew early...I got to get it

 

[Mindfield333]

What are they trying if they have never moved out their parents home?

never moved? like at all? They better be breaded up then. Either way i aint judging.

But i understand like a temporary stint due to a hardship