BlackJesus
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Ok get ready for a serious post:
The problem I see with alot of black men is they were not taught how to have higher standards and they were not taught how to apply those standards consistently. This life lesson of having standards applies across the board to everything you touch, including women.
When you walk into a restaurant with low standards it is immediately apparent. The prices are lower, the place looks cheap or ratchet and badly managed and it attracts a certain clientele. Restaurants like this make money from volume and give bad service. My point is, dont be like this restaurant.
When society sees you with a woman who a) fat or b) unkempt or c) ugly they judge you. They ascribe negative things to you you may not even be. They disrespect you in subtle ways. When they see you with a woman who looks like her shyt is toghether, they do opposite. They 'roll out the red carpet" for you as a couple. You get the best seats, best rooms in hotels, you are greeted warmly by waiters.
When they see a critical mass of a certain race or group with those dating patterns they judge the whole race. This is how your individual choices may affect others whether you want to or not.
Black men as a whole I think are improving, but don't move well enough yet to shake the negative stereotypes and one of the reasons is we were not taught to have standards.
Having standards means living your life like you are at a grocery store and where your choices matter. Buy shytty food get bad health. Buy good, healthy food get good healthy results. Now also apply this rule to women, and watch better women flow into your life.
Simple brehs. Have standards. Don't drop your standards at anytime for anyone. Watch your brand value go up.
The problem I see with alot of black men is they were not taught how to have higher standards and they were not taught how to apply those standards consistently. This life lesson of having standards applies across the board to everything you touch, including women.
When you walk into a restaurant with low standards it is immediately apparent. The prices are lower, the place looks cheap or ratchet and badly managed and it attracts a certain clientele. Restaurants like this make money from volume and give bad service. My point is, dont be like this restaurant.
When society sees you with a woman who a) fat or b) unkempt or c) ugly they judge you. They ascribe negative things to you you may not even be. They disrespect you in subtle ways. When they see you with a woman who looks like her shyt is toghether, they do opposite. They 'roll out the red carpet" for you as a couple. You get the best seats, best rooms in hotels, you are greeted warmly by waiters.
When they see a critical mass of a certain race or group with those dating patterns they judge the whole race. This is how your individual choices may affect others whether you want to or not.
Black men as a whole I think are improving, but don't move well enough yet to shake the negative stereotypes and one of the reasons is we were not taught to have standards.
Having standards means living your life like you are at a grocery store and where your choices matter. Buy shytty food get bad health. Buy good, healthy food get good healthy results. Now also apply this rule to women, and watch better women flow into your life.
Simple brehs. Have standards. Don't drop your standards at anytime for anyone. Watch your brand value go up.
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