Having to go out by yourself unappreciation

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On the real there is nothing wrong with going out by yourself. I classify myself as an loner. I go to the movies by myself every sunday night; it's something I do to start my week off right before the fukkery of work on monday

My girl, my ex girl's and homies all know I like to be by myself a lot. Sometimes I'll wake up be like fukk it I'm going to drive to san deigo or I'm going to go spend a couple of hours at the gun range. My girl would call and I would be like I'm in san deigo or I'm at the bar getting drunk, at first she would be mad; then she realized I'm like that and I'm not going to change.

I never been to the club by myself; I'll try that one day.
 

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I got friends but I enjoy alone time too. nikkas look at me funny when i put myself first who else gon look out for u but u?
 

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Like Tical said in Belly I roll dolo from state-to-state:ehh:
 

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I have done this frequently... Absolutely nothing wrong with it... Men are more likely to approach when I am at dinner by myself... There's a method to my madness I guess

I am not a fan of clubs but if I were into them, I wouldn't have a problem going by myself... Everyone has their own priorities in life... To each their own

How do you/ women feel about a man sitting at a restaurant by himself or just being a loner in general.

I have three friends in NYC, one friend in Dallas, and i'm in Houston by myself :yeshrug:
 

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How do you/ women feel about a man sitting at a restaurant by himself or just being a loner in general.

I have three friends in NYC, one friend in Dallas, and i'm in Houston by myself :yeshrug:

I don't mind it because I am used to doing it myself... All of my close female friends here are married, and I don't like imposing and asking them to come out with me too often. So I go by myself. I see nothing wrong with it... I am more likely to approach a man by himself. I'd ask him how his meal was and what he recommends.

Some people may think it's weird. So those types might find it strange... Down South people are much more judgmental about operating solo. So be prepared for a million questions as to why you are by yourself. Up North people tend to mind their business so it's less of an intrusion
 

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I'm out by myself right now. Too chicken shyt to go in Chili's and sit at a table..so I'm in my truck with a Togo menu..bout to eat these fried pickles and soft tacos in the parking lot :mjcry:
 

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ya'll sleeping on going out alone. i went to the bar alone yesterday. had to lie to my girl :francis: felt good :takedat: with ultra music festival going on right now, the downtown area is LIT
 

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I Down South people are much more judgmental about operating solo. So be prepared for a million questions as to why you are by yourself.

SMH you're right. I'd go to the mall by myself in highschool and run into girls i'd go to school with and always hated it because i knew the "aww are you by yourself?" was just around the corner....

but hey that's me. My circle always going be small. It is what it is.
 
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im a loner by nature. I was adopted around 1 or 2, I dont remember, so I have attachment and abandoment issues and this makes it hard for me to get close to people, especially with females. I dont know how to explain it. I spend most of my time alone, I mean I'm around people, but..........I feel like the "stranger in Moscow" (MJ reference). I have good days and bad days. ......its cool to find people who actually take the time to get to know you. But you have to put yourself out there. That's like the hardest thing to do, because its like you are fighting yourself. And when you do finally decide to go out, you have the best time in the world. A few wins against yourself and just this mundane task as going out will become habit. And socializing will become second nature. It takes time though. ANd don't expect people just to "get you" over night. Baby steps.
 

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i know so many damn people that everytime i go out by myself i am guaranteed to find a person or group to kick it with
 
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