not mad at this take
He chased her for 5 years and won! This black love? #Couplegoals?
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Yeah of all the IG pages there are, this one is great. Full of positive energy and it's great hearing how regular people met and talk of their journey
7 pages of a whole lot of insecure people basically projecting themselves and overanalyze a 30 second IG video. A lot of yall got issues and need therapy for your own sake. Yall seem to be real insecure towards what yall perceive as successful relationships/marriages and happy families. Says a lot about yall and what yall dont/never had and are upset about. Maybe yall have failed relationships and come from broken families, have unresolved mommy and/or daddy issues. Just being honest.
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Breh seems like a good natured person and is happy with her
Please tell me its hisI ain’t trynna be no chatty patty… first kid was born in 2018…. They been together since 2019…
I ain’t trynna be no chatty patty… first kid was born in 2018…. They been together since 2019…
He said they've known each other for 11 years total. He chased her for 5 and they've been together for 6.
beenz
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so she decided to fukk with him after getting ran thru is my thoughts on this.
Mike Nasty
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Life's too short to care about another man, but I'd smack him if he was my son.
Breh I hope the people defending this just didn't pay attention to the video carefully
Or that they are just being anti-reactionary simps
Because this is NOT healthy and in any other context they would not think its healthy
And she obviously feels like she settled so what's that make him? Chased a 4 for 5 yearsAnger issues, ran through and a disgusting gum to tooth ratio
Beca
Every man who has experienced a woman who had mutual feelings / attraction, rewarded the pursuit and allowed herself to be "caught."
I learned never let a man chase me [that I didn't really want / like ]. I graciously turn down advances and make sure my words / actions align so there's no confusion or feelings of being led on. I don't even befriend men anymore that was initially attracted to me... because he's likely just waiting for me to slip (that's predatory and not friendly). Example - I have 2 platonic male friends right now that if I invited them to sex they would do it in a second even though we have been friends for years. I would not because I really see them as friends.
More often than not, there is resentment (consciously or subconsciously) in the man for having to work past the chase to the point where he feels (entitlement) the woman should be caught. As far as he is concerned he worked hard enough and now it is her turn to work (transactional). He got his validation when he 'finally conquered her' so she better get hers.
Every man who has experienced a woman who had mutual feelings / attraction, rewarded the pursuit and allowed herself to be "caught."
I learned never let a man chase me [that I didn't really want / like ]. I graciously turn down advances and make sure my words / actions align so there's no confusion or feelings of being led on. I don't even befriend men anymore that was initially attracted to me... because he's likely just waiting for me to slip (that's predatory and not friendly). Example - I have 2 platonic male friends right now that if I invited them to sex they would do it in a second even though we have been friends for years. I would not because I really see them as friends.
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She had the first child before him
Does that change the statement?She had the first child before him
5 years ago is when Kevin Samuels blew up. I guess his efforts worked here."I got older and I started thinking" *Kevin Samuels gif*
She takes care of her husband and theybhavs a functional family. Nobody's perfect so maybe she will also become more patient