He makes 55K, She Makes 35K, RENT: $1700 - He Wants Her To Pay Half

Fair or Foul?

  • Fair

    Votes: 115 70.1%
  • Foul

    Votes: 25 15.2%
  • They too broke to be in a relationship

    Votes: 24 14.6%

  • Total voters
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ALonelyDad

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I was gonna say foul but if hes paying for every other bill, it is fair.

Living is expensive these days, hard for one person to truly pay for it all
 

Art Barr

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simple marriage laws in committal relationships on display.

What is the issue.
Only a simp has an issue.



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Rawtid

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There is no right answer. It depends on the financial situation of the couple. Living together should ease the financial burden overall.
 

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Nah it’s not far she barely getting by.. What he should do is pay the rent and she pay the other bills.. that’s fair

How is she barely getting by?

£10,200 on rent when she is earning 35k isn't struggling to get by. She will have to be responsible with her, which is what you'd expect from adult.

shyt makes me realise that as much as people speak of independence, there is still this expectation to look after women as if they are infants.
 

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Be a trick in your relationship brehs

It's not 1963. Women work too in 2021.
If shes not paying half of everything then you're getting used.
True but a women's nature was not updated and never will. She will lose respect for him after awhile. And if it's a sista to?? Yea she will be fukking a dude that makes less then her.

This shyt plays out like this evertime
 

J.E.T.S

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How bout she pays for the rent for her apartment and he pays for the rent for his apartment.

Y'all ain't married so stop trying to live like your married.

Sounds like to me that he can live alone and she will probably have to live with roommates

exactly.

I’ll NEVER again live with a woman.
 

J.E.T.S

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Come on I think you reaching a lil bit. You can definitely afford more than 800 making 55k. That's near 3500 a month after taxes.

Besides that, where you gonna find an apartment for $800 dollars a month?

nikkas gonna be living in somebody’s tool shed.

let’s also remember that most people not even earning 50k a year.
 

J.E.T.S

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See I already knew the get married brehs were going to come in here. I have no regrets about it all. I actually stay down the street from her and we still crack jokes about the marriage. It was a life lesson you take from it what you can and move on. I make way more than I did back then and I'm in better place and she is too. And I still beat from time to time so life is great:yeshrug:

:russ::russ::russ::russ::russ:
 

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Bro you drive a crown vic, with windown that do not work..... you should not give out any advice on money

Lemme guess, you heard the number one goofy on this site @Houston911 make that crown vic sh*t up one day and decided that you'd run with it too? :heh:

Ayo @Houston911, you got somebody tryna bite your "im getting my sh*t kicked in and have no ammo so i'll make up ducktales for comebacks", style breh. Handle that. :heh:
 
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