"He said he rather her cheated than told him that"

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Stay in the gym and keep yo mouthpiece tight. :ufdup:
You can't control whether a woman cheats on you or not. Cheating is a personal decision the cheater makes, and it really has nothing to do with the person being cheated on. So even telling guys what to do to avoid it happening to them is essentially blaming them when it happens, when in fact the only reason why the woman cheated is because of her bad character.

*edit: The same goes for men too. In the end, it is never the victim's fault that they got cheated on.
 

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You can't control whether a woman cheats on you or not. Cheating is a personal decision the cheater makes, and it really has nothing to do with the person being cheated on. So even telling guys what to do to avoid it happening to them is essentially blaming them when it happens, when in fact the only reason why the woman cheated is because of her bad character.

*edit: The same goes for men too. In the end, it is never the victim's fault that they got cheated on.

Yep....:francis: it doesnt even matter....
 

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Tough situation to be in...

Whoever that woman is talking about hurt feelings is evil AF! Smh.

But, I am not surprised because I believe she isn't the only person who believes that men can't have emotions outside of anger/aggression...

Some men probably don't wanna hear their S.O. tell them that they wanna đź‘€ someone else. Sometimes, the truth hurts, but for me, I would rather someone tell me that they wanna move on than cheat. Gonna get hurt either way, but honesty would help me heal faster.

I just hope dude don't take his ex back and I hope he upgrade and get him a better woman! Success is the best revenge IMO!
 

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You can't control whether a woman cheats on you or not. Cheating is a personal decision the cheater makes, and it really has nothing to do with the person being cheated on. So even telling guys what to do to avoid it happening to them is essentially blaming them when it happens, when in fact the only reason why the woman cheated is because of her bad character.

*edit: The same goes for men too. In the end, it is never the victim's fault that they got cheated on.
LOL@this bullshyt
 

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LOL@this bullshyt
Explain how that's wrong.

Explain how cheating on someone can ever be preferrable to just getting up and leaving the relationship. This is like saying you don't get to be mad because you forgot to lock your door and someone broke into your house and stole your shyt.
 

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Explain how that's wrong.

Explain how cheating on someone can ever be preferrable to just getting up and leaving the relationship. This is like saying you don't get to be mad because you forgot to lock your door and someone broke into your house and stole your shyt.
If ya girl not giving u no ass, and a bytch that look like rubi rose sendind you pics like this



You not diving in that head first :usure:
 

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LOL@this bullshyt
Explain how it is the victims fault? From my point of view, if the relationship is not going well, leave it. If you want to have sex with other people and remain in the relationship, ask to open it. Anyone who cheats, just has poor character. There are other options outside of cheating, just that the person is too weak to actually use those options and instead rather be deceitful.
 

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If ya girl not giving u no ass, and a bytch that look like rubi rose sendind you pics like this



You not diving in that head first :usure:

If your girl is refusing you, why are you with her still? If sex is that important to you that you feel you will cheat for it, why get in exclusive relationships in the first place? You can just date and tell the women that you are not exclusive with them? You just have to also not be a hypocrite and get upset if she takes advantage of her options too.
 

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This is what happens when you allow your woman to go into the workplace. You allow her to be in the company of bitter unruly hellhounds. Who probably are cheering her on to cheat on you. You allow her to be in the company of men who we all know dirty mack and put things in womens heads. Not to mention you have her working for another mans agenda daily. I mean seriously,that aint your woman,yall on that Will and Jada open marriage time. Where everyone has access to your woman.
 

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If your girl is refusing you, why are you with her still? If sex is that important to you that you feel you will cheat for it, why get in exclusive relationships in the first place? You can just date and tell the women that you are not exclusive with them? You just have to also not be a hypocrite and get upset if she takes advantage of her options too.
Because its not that simple


It sounds simple, but its not. Men are married all the time and getting none from their wives. They have a lot invested (kids, property, $$$), so its not as simple as “well lets get divorced”…
 

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7 years deserves an explanation. What's up with this generation :what:
If you not married, no explanation required. And to be clear, I more mean no specifics need to be mentioned. She could just say she wants to move on.

She basically admitted to emotional cheating which is whatever imo. But flip it and tell me it don't seem foul if I tell a chick "it's a girl at my job I been feeling so I wanna break this off and see what she's about".
 
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