Help a Lame learn to communicate with heaux

[ThePlumber]

First part of fixing a problem is admitting I have a problem. I have absolute zero game. The only times I got puss was when the girl came up to me strong or a breh set me up. Just came back from college bar and once again got nowhere. My problem is I'm socially retarded. I have nothing to talk about and makes me a little apprehensive about approaching. Any tips, conversation topics, hints would be helpful.

 

[Gold]

People overcomplicate friendly conversation.

In my experience, women will ask you way more questions then you ask them so convo isn't too hard.

 

[全能の神]

In my experience, women will ask you way more questions then you ask them so convo isn't too hard.

fukk

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

Just stay funny stay saying new things etc

 

[platinum f1a$k]

first mistake is how you identify yourself...stop calling yourself a lame...you're defeating yourself.
second, get confidence...good at something? let the confidence you have from that carry over and quietly project
third, it's just conversation...70% of which is being a good active listener
everything else will flow
you will get rejected a lot, but that's how you grow and realize what's what
biggest takeaways don't be scurred and have confidence...

 

[ThePlumber]

A girls legit came up to me and said " You need to fukk my friend, but she wont make the first move" and I just stood their with my hands in my pockets not knowing what to say. I'm not afraid of rejection or anything, its just I don't know how to make conversation.

 

[Lo-Co]

first mistake is how you identify yourself...stop calling yourself a lame...you're defeating yourself.
second, get confidence...good at something? let the confidence you have from that carry over and quietly project
third, it's just conversation...70% of which is being a good active listener
everything else will flow
you will get rejected a lot, but that's how you grow and realize what's what
biggest takeaways don't be scurred and have confidence...

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

fukk

Yep, if you pulling the whole convo, you fukking up




Dial it back, pump the brakes and put the shyt in coast.

Most importantly, LISTEN. Then all you got to do is follow up based on what she said. Rinse, repeat...over and over.

 

[OfTheCross]

First part of fixing a problem is admitting I have a problem. I have absolute zero game. The only times I got puss was when the girl came up to me strong or a breh set me up. Just came back from college bar and once again got nowhere. My problem is I'm socially retarded. I have nothing to talk about and makes me a little apprehensive about approaching. Any tips, conversation topics, hints would be helpful.

1. be confident. people ain't special bruh. they're just as lame as you
2. be yourself. I know that may contradict #1 cause you're a lame, but ask your lame questions and make your lame conversation.
3. hopefully y'all vibin and you can ask for the digits for fukk that night

the end.

If you're up for it you could just pay for p*ssy too

 

[Lo-Co]

Yep, if you pulling the whole convo, you fukking up

it sucks when you realize it in the middle of the conversation.

 

[全能の神]

Yep, if you pulling the whole convo, you fukking up




Dial it back, pump the brakes and put the shyt in coast.

Most importantly, LISTEN. Then all you got to do is follow up based on what she said. Rinse, repeat...over and over.

I'm gonna start doing this now

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

it sucks when you realize it in the middle of the conversation.

As awkward as it can be...you control how long you apart of the convo. So if shyt going left and you realize it, bail. Cause the only thing you could do is make the shyt worse. Once you lost a girl interest or god forbid you boring her, time to hang up and come back prepared for the next call.

 

[Poitier]

casual convo...you don't need to be talking every second breh that shyt is annoying...I know every bar has billiards? easy way to break the ice and mitigate awkward convo.

 

[platinum f1a$k]

A girls legit came up to me and said " You need to fukk my friend, but she wont make the first move" and I just stood their with my hands in my pockets not knowing what to say. I'm not afraid of rejection or anything, its just I don't know how to make conversation.

stop thinking you need to impress or entertain these hoes...flip that
calm down your energy and vibe and the women will relax and follow if they are feeling you to begin with
that's another thing...don't try to convince these women to feel you
my saying is: I like women that like me
I literally say the wildest shyt sometimes, but because I'm cool with it, they're cool with it

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

my saying is: I like women that like me