Thread is a spinoff of the one created by @TheFemalePerspective
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/help-me-understand-this-mans-mind.297032/
So this girl had been working with me for over a year and we were basically like friends. I never asked for her number even though I should have but I had my reasons for this.
I kinda developed a thing for her over time and my feelings became stronger as time went on. I never wanted to try anything with her because I didnt wanna mess around with any work colleagues and also because I didnt know how she felt.
After a while, her attitude towards me changed in the sense that she started acting really disrespectful towards me even though I was always nice to her (maybe a bit too nice)
Now from my perspective, she was pissed off because I wasnt making a move on her. I guess my actions from before made it kinda obvious that I had feelings for her.
So I decided to take the chance and tell her how I feel. I asked her twice if she was willing to stick around after work so we could talk (it was obvious to her what I wanted to talk about).
She told me 'no' on both occasions and Im 100% sure that she was playing hard to get but I wasnt willing to ask her for a third time because on the second occasion she kinda put me on the spot in front of others when she turned me down.
Therefore, I thought fukk it
If she felt the same way, she would do somer about it because by now shes knows how I feel.
Not only did this girl never did anything she tried to make me jealous by flirting with another colleague in front of me.
That shyt put me off completely. Like I started to ignore and stay away from her like she was the plague.
This time she knew I was mad for real.
Now she started to crave for my attention on some kid shyt. Im talking about walking past me a million times and sitting at the desk in front of me, trying to get me to look at her because no matter how immature this sounds, I was acting like this bytch wasnt even there.
Now this got her mad
Long story short, this bytch just vanished from the workplace. Didnt give her notice or nothing.
Now I know it may sound crazy to some of ya'll but none of guys know this bytch like I do. I know for a fact that she left the job to get at me because she didnt really need it in the first place.
She even deactivated her facebook account or made it hidden after removing all the colleagues from her friend list so she cant be found (Shes crazy enough to do it)
Its like her way of saying that if you gonna disrespect me by ignoring me, I'll make sure you never see me again.
Something I did regret doing is asking one of my colleagues to text her to see if she was good and if it was ok for him to pass your number to me. I wanted to make sure she was alright because part of me still cared about it.
She never replied to the bit about her number being passed to me so I guess thats that.
So tell me people, was I wrong? Did I take it too seriously?
Its like the bytch wanted to make a move on her again which I could have done but why the fuk should I be one always making the effort.
Plus I would have lost self-respect if I had done that.
Thoughts?
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/help-me-understand-this-mans-mind.297032/
So this girl had been working with me for over a year and we were basically like friends. I never asked for her number even though I should have but I had my reasons for this.
I kinda developed a thing for her over time and my feelings became stronger as time went on. I never wanted to try anything with her because I didnt wanna mess around with any work colleagues and also because I didnt know how she felt.
After a while, her attitude towards me changed in the sense that she started acting really disrespectful towards me even though I was always nice to her (maybe a bit too nice)
Now from my perspective, she was pissed off because I wasnt making a move on her. I guess my actions from before made it kinda obvious that I had feelings for her.
So I decided to take the chance and tell her how I feel. I asked her twice if she was willing to stick around after work so we could talk (it was obvious to her what I wanted to talk about).
She told me 'no' on both occasions and Im 100% sure that she was playing hard to get but I wasnt willing to ask her for a third time because on the second occasion she kinda put me on the spot in front of others when she turned me down.
Therefore, I thought fukk it
If she felt the same way, she would do somer about it because by now shes knows how I feel.
Not only did this girl never did anything she tried to make me jealous by flirting with another colleague in front of me.
That shyt put me off completely. Like I started to ignore and stay away from her like she was the plague.
This time she knew I was mad for real.
Now she started to crave for my attention on some kid shyt. Im talking about walking past me a million times and sitting at the desk in front of me, trying to get me to look at her because no matter how immature this sounds, I was acting like this bytch wasnt even there.
Now this got her mad
Long story short, this bytch just vanished from the workplace. Didnt give her notice or nothing.
Now I know it may sound crazy to some of ya'll but none of guys know this bytch like I do. I know for a fact that she left the job to get at me because she didnt really need it in the first place.
She even deactivated her facebook account or made it hidden after removing all the colleagues from her friend list so she cant be found (Shes crazy enough to do it)
Its like her way of saying that if you gonna disrespect me by ignoring me, I'll make sure you never see me again.
Something I did regret doing is asking one of my colleagues to text her to see if she was good and if it was ok for him to pass your number to me. I wanted to make sure she was alright because part of me still cared about it.
She never replied to the bit about her number being passed to me so I guess thats that.
So tell me people, was I wrong? Did I take it too seriously?
Its like the bytch wanted to make a move on her again which I could have done but why the fuk should I be one always making the effort.
Plus I would have lost self-respect if I had done that.
Thoughts?
