Just because you are a man without child doesnt mean you dont play a role in this...like i said it starts with "ideas" our homes and how we perceive our women
Just because we are leaders does not mean they are without fault...but they are our women and our responsibility and the way we "blame them" is not the way we blame ourselves..
Because as I said..we are the ones who are to be the leaders of our homes and communities
But lemme just answer ur last question tho
How do we create these leaders?
Thats a question that requires a pretty long answer but I'll keep it general for the sake of time
Because it starts in the home first we would need to promote faithfulness between the black man and woman
Second we need to raise our sons with values of manhood that correlate with responsibility, faithfulness, strength, etc. and leave behind the values that put us in contention(ex: Im a better man than u i got dese kicks u dnt,i got more hoes u dnt, etc etc.) but rather, unite us
AT the same time, raise our daughters with a picture of manhood that will steer her in the right path when she comes of age
Third, as men, we must not simply take advantage of the women who have been scarred by bad upbringing, and the like, but rather present ourselves as healers rather than users so that are women's identities will be tied into something much stronger than what it is now
Ofc its not as simple as Ive laid out just a basic idea tho..but ya thats my thought process and Im sticking to it homie