"Knowledge of self"?
I remember when you first got here you said you were a white girl from a white ass community and you said you were interested in dating black guys that aren't "uncle toms."
I don't know much about Desirous, but if she's not inclined or equipped to speak on complex matters of race and social justice, I think it would be preferable for her to remain mostly silent as opposed to say, having the white elitist arrogance to feel she has license to label black men as "uncle toms" because she listens to Dipset.