High Dating Standards = Dating at My Own Level is Acceptance of Who I Really Am. I HATE who I really AM.

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Thinking about all the fronting and faking people do to try and be perceived as something, someone greater. We go broke trying to move up the rankings. But the world always show you who and what you really are.
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This seems to be the issue with mostly average and below people. Nobody wants to be average anymore. We're in a day were being average is like a curse. Back in the day average people would find an average person, get married and live a good happy life.


Nowadays, average people are disgusted with other average people. :scust:


A woman that's a 6, is disgusted with a man that's a 6. A will not settle for him. Why, bcuz that means she has to accept she's a 6. Water seeps to it's on level. Nothing tells you exactly who you are than the history of people you've dated.
A lot of us work all our lives to be better than we really are, but the vast majority of us are just average everyday people. :yeshrug:We go get education and careers, money in hopes to be better. And a lot of money can help, but most of us start life out as 5s and 6s, start kindergarten as a 5/6, work an average career, married an average woman, have average kids and die average.
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It's not so bad when you accept it.



This is mostly women bcuz most men know and accept how we rank amongst men. Sadly a lot of women live and die alone bcuz they don't want to face the facts of being average woman.


They say they refuse to settle, it's really not wanting to accept who's in the mirror.
 

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There's some truth to this. A woman settling with an average man is confirmation that she ain't who she thinks she is. Staying single gives you hope.

On a side note most people don't know what it takes to compete at a higher level. Degrees alone wont cut it, they simply open doors and opportunities.
 

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men "settling" benefits them more that it does women. So of course men would settle for any women that basically take of him.
 

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The problem is that you're defining "average" by the worlds standard.

Education, career and money are things many people don't have in the world. Your average, using the things you listed, is someone else's 10.

Gratitude fam. Learn it and you'll realize you're really above average. No two stars in the universe are exactly the same or live on the same time.
 

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How do men benefit from settling?
A man would get a cook,cleaner,babysitter,therapist and sex worker all in one while a woman gets told how she should be grateful for her balding husband who only responsiblity is to have a job and pay the bills and judging by this economy a women would need to step in and help with that too.
 

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OP..

No disrespect to you personally, but...

You know what the problem is??

The problem I đź‘€ is people worrying too much what other people are doing, thinking, etc...

You also have people voluntarily advocating for people who I believe wholeheartedly don't give a shyt about them.

I don't have time nor energy to concern myself with people I believe wouldn't do the same for me.

For instance, I am not gonna worry about women dying alone or any of that stuff because it isn't my responsibility to monitor & manage their romantic business when I have my own to deal with. Certainly, these women isn't worried about my romantic situation and I don't expect them to worry about it.

If men & women wanna have super high dating standards, then so be it. Ain't got shyt to do with me. If people believe that they are above average, then so be it.

The sexual market will tell them exactly where they stand, so I believe that life experience will teach these people life lessons and they will eventually figure shyt out and adjust their mindset..
 
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