High Dating Standards = Dating at My Own Level is Acceptance of Who I Really Am. I HATE who I really AM.

[Stuntone]

OP..

No disrespect to you personally, but...

You know what the problem is??

The problem I is people worrying too much what other people are doing, thinking, etc...

You also have people voluntarily advocating for people who I believe wholeheartedly don't give a shyt about them.

I don't have time nor energy to concern myself with people I believe wouldn't do the same for me.

For instance, I am not gonna worry about women dying alone or any of that stuff because it isn't my responsibility to monitor & manage their romantic business when I have my own to deal with. Certainly, these women isn't worried about my romantic situation and I don't expect them to worry about it.

If men & women wanna have super high dating standards, then so be it. Ain't got shyt to do with me. If people believe that they are above average, then so be it.

The sexual market will tell them exactly where they stand, so I believe that life experience will teach these people life lessons and they will eventually figure shyt out and adjust their mindset..

I don't know why people think what's going on in the world doesnt effect you directly. We're all in the same ecosystem.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

You can't be average when you create life. No woman is average.

Roaches and Rats have babies too.

And they are both modern marvels of the insect/animal kingdom.

Comedy gold. Ya’ll wildin in here

 

[maxamusa]

OP aint you like 40? why tf you keep making these juvenile dating threads...drop some game on us you old fart

 

[Savvir]

And they are both modern marvels of the insect/animal kingdom.

when everything is amazing...

amazing starts to lose its meaning...

 

[Michael's Black Son]

Social Media is really doing a number on average people.


Everyone is so successful, beautiful and having a great time on IG.

Yup

bytches will scroll and see a Beyoncé post and thing that their selfie camera turned on by itself

 

[Theflash]

Sometimes women date men who nobody wants so they don't have to worry about a woman taking him

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

men "settling" benefits them more that it does women. So of course men would settle for any women that basically take of him.

A man would get a cook,cleaner,babysitter,therapist and sex worker all in one while a woman gets told how she should be grateful for her balding husband who only responsiblity is to have a job and pay the bills and judging by this economy a women would need to step in and help with that too.

These the LSA bear back bytches you nikkas simp for

 

[TreySav]

You can't be average when you create life. No woman is average.

The Mod who flagged this as simp babble a real one

 

[Houston911]

The Mod who flagged this as simp babble a real one

 

[Houston911]

A man would get a cook,cleaner,babysitter,therapist and sex worker all in one while a woman gets told how she should be grateful for her balding husband who only responsiblity is to have a job and pay the bills and judging by this economy a women would need to step in and help with that too.

Your average woman doesn’t cook and she doesn’t wanna have sex with her husband either

If things worked the way you said then yes, the average man would be winning

 

[Wildhundreds]

I don't know why people think what's going on in the world doesnt effect you directly. We're all in the same ecosystem.

Everything doesn't effect everyone the same. Whats traumatic to you maybe funny to the next person.

 

[MikelArteta]

Majority of us are gasp average when you die no one will think of you a few years after . Or if they do Maybe just for a second a fleeting moment and carry on.

The heart of man and women is desperately wicked .

Some brehs and brehettes always think there is something more something better out there but nah.

 

[GoPinheiro]

Thinking about all the fronting and faking people do to try and be perceived as something, someone greater. We go broke trying to move up the rankings. But the world always show you who and what you really are.


This seems to be the issue with mostly average and below people. Nobody wants to be average anymore. We're in a day were being average is like a curse. Back in the day average people would find an average person, get married and live a good happy life.


Nowadays, average people are disgusted with other average people.


A woman that's a 6, is disgusted with a man that's a 6. A will not settle for him. Why, bcuz that means she has to accept she's a 6. Water seeps to it's on level. Nothing tells you exactly who you are than the history of people you've dated.
A lot of us work all our lives to be better than we really are, but the vast majority of us are just average everyday people. We go get education and careers, money in hopes to be better. And a lot of money can help, but most of us start life out as 5s and 6s, start kindergarten as a 5/6, work an average career, married an average woman, have average kids and die average.

It's not so bad when you accept it.

Your idea of average is completely different than mine. Or, you really need to go outside more and deal with people(even if it is only black people) with diverse backgrounds and personalities. "Average" people are dating, procreating, and marrying each other every single day. I feel like you don't know the difference between someone average and someone basic.

Dating a woman that is cute, childless, stress-free, emotionally stable, smart, educated, with a good job, and from good family background, is not hard or something out of this world. A woman like that is AVERAGE to many men. And attention, having a good family background is not specifically connected to wealth.

But millions of dudes have never dated someone like that or weren't raised in an environment where most women were like that, so they automatically avoid these women and focus mostly on women that are just basic(regular to a cute face, low-income job, living paycheck to paycheck, small spot, dysfunctional family, etc), and call these women average.

This is mostly women bcuz most men know and accept how we rank amongst men. Sadly a lot of women live and die alone bcuz they don't want to face the facts of being average woman.


They say they refuse to settle, it's really not wanting to accept who's in the mirror.

That's not entirely true...Because many men simply "settle". They find someone to stay by their side until he gets better in life and can find a way better replacement. This happens with kid or without kids in the relationship. Some, don't leave after life gets better but have a woman on the side, that looks completely different than the one they got married to.

 

[Brolic]

OP aint you like 40? why tf you keep making these juvenile dating threads...drop some game on us you old fart

He’s keeping St. Kevin Samuels name alive

 

[Commish]

I don't know why people think what's going on in the world doesnt effect you directly. We're all in the same ecosystem.

We are all affected by the actions of others to a certain extent, but when it comes to romance, then it becomes less of the case.

My point stands...

I don't care how a woman feels about herself or men, if I never meet her. If I do meet said woman, then of course her thoughts & actions affect me so long as I allow it to affect me.

I see dudes on here talking about women this and that and to be honest, those women don't give a ass about those dudes and is probably too self absorbed to do so which is why dudes complain about women to boot.

I am about people taking control of their own happiness and living their life accordingly...