High Earning Childless Black Man Attacked and Shamed for Not Dating Single Mothers, despite being raised by one.

[#1 pick]

The only person that said anything about tact in this thread is a woman. But you indirectly unearthed another point because honestly the man in the video handled this all wrong . He played himself

Black men need to step their articulation game up. I know some of y'all are probably jumping for joy at his points but they shouldn't have been made in the first place. The highest form of articulation would bring him, and many other black men to the understanding that they shouldn't be engaging with these baked bean brain bytches at all

Once you've reached the point of being on one of these dumbass podcasts, panels, tweet threads etc you're throwing yourselves at the mercy of incoherent, self serving, bad faith babble

Nikkas keep thinking they're gonna explain their way to salvation and that's not how shyt works. All this "OK BUT IF A MAN WAS 5'4...." shyt is meaningless. They don't care. Nikka you shouldn't care, definitely not enough to throw yourself into a pit of bird babble

If we're gonna talk about black men sugarcoating too much fine, but let's go all the way with it. Because this non stop arguing with women, trying to plead your case and try to make them see reason is just as bad. Live your preferences and don't explain shyt to anyone

That nikka lost the second he decided to go on that show but Kevin Samuels has created this environment where nikkas are chomping at the bit to argue with hoes over bullshyt.
 

Most men struggle debating against women when it comes to dating or romance. I always said Kevin Samuels was generational. He could speak hoe babble fluently almost like a feminine gay nikka. Most men can't

 

[JasoRockStar]

That’s the irony. Often times some black women try and shame black men into doing things by using the old reliable “yo mama black ” without considering the fact that in some cases our mothers would agree with what we have to say about a certain topic.

There are black men whose mothers told them to go after white and light skinned women. Matthew Knowles, Beyonce father, has spoken about how his mother instructed him to not "bring home a nappy-headed black girl".

 

[Gloxina]

her man is right there next to her and she’s whining about the next man’s preference ?

Wait what? I’m so lost here. I don’t even know what show this is.

 

[Gloxina]

Most men struggle debating against women when it comes to dating or romance. I always said Kevin Samuels was generational. He could speak hoe babble fluently almost like a feminine gay nikka. Most men can't

There’s a reason most men can’t. But anyway


Kevin did make solid points. There’s no reason for men and women to be arguing like this lol Like you said, just live your preferences.

 

[Gloxina]

There are black men whose mothers told them to go after white and light skinned women. Matthew Knowles, Beyonce father, has spoken about how his mother instructed him to not "bring home a nappy-headed black girl".

And sadly, Jacky Oh’s own father discussed how Eve must've been a white woman essentially created for Black Adam during her funeral.


Some people have warped ass parents

 

[Stuntone]

Most men struggle debating against women when it comes to dating or romance. I always said Kevin Samuels was generational. He could speak hoe babble fluently almost like a feminine gay nikka. Most men can't

Because women throw out so much illogical babble, most men get confused as to which fire to put out first.

 

[alpo]

No his main mistake was coming off angry and judgemental. When you do those things your argument will never get anywhere and gives ammunition to the other side. That's why they subjected to grilling his personality.

He should have left his comment very simple and straightforward.

That man can be judgmental all he wants, what y’all gon do about it?

 

[JasoRockStar]

And sadly, Jacky Oh’s own father discussed how Eve must've been a white woman essentially created for Black Adam during her funeral.


Some people have warped ass parents

What's up with all these folks saying outta pocket stuff at funerals? First, it was the pastor at Aretha Franklin's funeral, then it was YG at Nipsey's funeral and now this. I know you lost a loved one and it can be hard expressing your feelings clearly, but damn.

 

[HarlemHottie]

Sometimes you just have to finesse the situation/conversation to avoid crap like this.

“You know, I never really thought about it; maybe it could happen if the situation was right”. Then when you marry someone who is childless you just say the right woman happened to be childless. Bam
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But we aren't talking about the woman asking that question. The man was one getting grilled for his preference.

How is asking the question "Is everybody allowed to have their own preferences?" unsafe?

We're actually talking about your objection to @Gloxina's advice. Ftr, i agree with you, lying isn't necessary FOR A MAN. However, being a woman, Gloxina gave a suggestion based on how SHE moves, which naturally will be different (which is why i generally refrain from giving men advice).

Women irl have to be more circumspect; on the internet, everybody out of character.

 

[JasoRockStar]

Why was he so emotional?

Seriously what reason is there to get emotional?

"I don't date single mothers, deal with it " that's all he had to say.

Unfortunately he fell into the trap laid out for him. Matriarchy shyt, he looked like a young boy being scolded by a his mother, his fat auntie and his mother's bum ass boyfriend.

Insecure folks feel the need to explain themselves to and be validated by people who shouldn't matter.

 

[#1 pick]

Because women throw out so much illogical babble, most men get confused as to which fire to put out first.

I wouldn't call it illogical babble. It's coded language like pigdin English in the Islands or Africa. It's a complex language but it comes off to us as hoe babble or women rambling and no making sense while sounding smart.

 

[Stuntone]

I wouldn't call it illogical babble. It's coded language like pigdin English in the Islands or Africa. It's a complex language but it comes off to us as hoe babble or women rambling and no making sense while sounding smart.

Saying you should date a single mom because your mom is one isn't illogical??

 

[#1 pick]

The biggest issue I see on thecoli is men want women to conform and most don't want to unless there is a massive gain which many men can't deliver or only in spots.

The biggest issue I see on LSA is women want a build a nikka like a build a bear. He gotta be this, let me do this, treat me like this, fukk me like this and they can't understand why it's hard to have it all. They just can't. As the white girl said in the video, why aren't there men that are like conservative men in terms of treatment but behavior wise like liberal men where they respect me as a woman. They simply don't understand men nor do they care to understand.

 

[#1 pick]

Saying you should date a single mom because your mom is one isn't illogical??

This is you getting lost in the sauce. I am speaking about the language itself, not hot takes.

 

[King Poetic]

Sounds like this single mother with 3 kids that I know & she has her tubes tied. Lol

I told her a while ago that she’ll probably be better off finding a single father unless she wants to be used for sex. Her response was “men without kids love it here.”… so I asked why she hasn’t been wifed yet?

First excuse was that her standards are high. I dissected that for obvious reasons.

Second excuse was that men were insecure, controlling, and couldn’t “handle a bad bytch”. Easy points made by me…

Soooo “how do childless men love it there again? ” . I told her that she is delusional because she got a ton of them wanting to fukk. Not saying that there isn’t one out there, but the odds of you finding him is slim.

She started getting loud, so I walked off.

Loud mouth when u don’t agree

3 kids

Says she’s a bad bytch

and doesn’t know she’s just a screw for men because she keep saying men love it there

That broad is nothing u invest anything outside of a bedroom in