I’m not missing anything.
You’ve even just said Most women will accept a date if they know they’re getting something out of it (something which the general man doesn’t realize)
Yet men are wrong to expect and feel entitled to sex after they’ve done everything “the right way” according to societal standards?
Also Woman have ZERO PROBLEM communicating and feigning interest with men they already know they’re not really interested in other than to get something out of the man. You sound like an out of touch old head.
We wouldn’t be having this conversation right now if that wasn’t the case.
And Why would the general man want to understand and know how women think when they’re programmed to believe that all you need to do is traditional courtship which is asking a woman out and taking them on dates and women who accept have a genuine interest in you?