Highkey I shoulda been trying to find a wife back in undergrad.

[Gloxina]

I fukked over 2-3 chicks I should have married in college and now it's too late to double back.

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

I’ll sound like a broken record, so lemme just say thanks for the honesty.

 

[Gloxina]

yawl need to stop looking at your idealized selves and be honest with who you actually are mane not who you wish you were. I feel like as an average dude the best thing you can do is just find someone who is at the exact same level you are and build together. I know dudes say don't fool with coworkers but that's a good place to start if you know how to keep it respectful and don't force nun. Dudes aint practical these days though. Everybody trying to live they "best" life instead of the life they actually living.

I really do like your posts.
Very practical advice.


And I miss your old avi

 

[Pegasus Jackson]

i shoulda found a wife in follies before they closed it

Nah.. they were ALL selling p*ssy.

 

[97Pac]

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

I’ll sound like a broken record, so lemme just say thanks for the honesty.

The older males around me told me to have fun and have sex with as many females as possible in college. No one told me to be looking for a long term girlfriend/potential wife in college. One chick gave me multiple chances but I constantly fukked up. She eventually moved on.

I won't fukk the next one up.

 

[Reality]

Ask yourself why you want a wife though...what's the answer? Like breh said, if it's not for kids, think long and hard.

If it's just for companionship, and you have $, that is a big risk. You really trying to put half at risk with a modern woman?

If you find yourself a nice church girl or woman from a more traditional culture, it might be worth that risk. But I'll tell brehs what I've said in other threads...

Hp on one of these dating apps for a week or two. See who you see on there. Then, make an anonymous account on seekingarrangements...it's a site for literal whoring via sugar daddy relationships. That shyt will sober you right the fukk up. I've been talking to women, setting up dates w/ them, only to see them also on the sugar daddy site. Imagine making one of them your wife.

 

[MajesticLion]

Those Asian divorce stat numbers vs everybody else

 

[6ixSigma]

shyt i just applied for my passport and booking a trip to south Africa

Just proposed to my South African girl a few weeks ago. Headed back out there this month to visit. I definitely see myself retiring there

 

[Lord_nikon]

Been with my man since sophomore year. We're 41 now.

my fellow 1980's gang gang

 

[Astroslik]

Just proposed to my South African girl a few weeks ago. Headed back out there this month to visit. I definitely see myself retiring there

What part of south africa?

 

[13473]

Deadass might go to grad school to find me one

 

[Admiral Ackbar]

I used to think the same way, but I reize at 42? Shiiiiit, the 20-somethings just want dikk and dinner.

 

[3rdWorld]

Order one online..

 

[GreenGhxst]

Better get a passport and save a Colombian ho

Them hoes will empty your bank account while you're duck taped in some basement in your boxers

 

[GreenGhxst]

yawl need to stop looking at your idealized selves and be honest with who you actually are mane not who you wish you were. I feel like as an average dude the best thing you can do is just find someone who is at the exact same level you are and build together. I know dudes say don't fool with coworkers but that's a good place to start if you know how to keep it respectful and don't force nun. Dudes aint practical these days though. Everybody trying to live they "best" life instead of the life they actually living.

nikkas making 35k a year looking for a Brittany Renner when they really should be looking for a stocker at Walmart with dreams of becoming assistant manager

Women on the same shyt, your one true love is a school bus driver with a big heart

The fry cook at Arby's, be realistic bro

 

[jay83]

nikkas making 35k a year looking for a Brittany Renner when they really should be looking for a stocker at Walmart with dreams of becoming assistant manager

Women on the same shyt, your one true love is a school bus driver with a big heart

The fry cook at Arby's, be realistic bro

Honestly if it wasn’t for social media Brittany renner would most likely be married to a high school basketball coach or a Walmart manager most likely.