Hoe babble chronicles a man should bring 200 to 400 on the first date

[jfkennedy]

These types of women are annoying to be around for more than five minutes. I’d listen to her talk like

The woman I’m talking to now, we went to a wine bar the first date … bill was like $80. She tried to split it but I said no since I asked her out.

Fast forward a month and a half and yesterday she sent me $25 for coffee out of nowhere because we stayed up all night and she knew I was a bit tired at work. You think the chick in OP ever sent a guy some money for no reason?

 

[TaxCollector13459]

Well all got dreams huh lol

 

[Mowgli]

Foreigners. Hoes. Always chasing dollar amounts.. that's how you know a chick grew up broke. They want you overspending before you find out the obvious. It doesn't cost $400 to find out you ain't shyt. I cant think of a woman that cost me 400 to interact with off top.

Women can't choose a man for shyt but are relationship gurus.

 

[Jazzy B.]

You obsessed with dudes on here who said they earn six figures fukk is you talking about that wasn't the premise of the conversation.

Did you even listen to what she said?

No your being a trolling contrarian peace!

Breh if the woman wants to be treated to a $200-$400 first date then that's on her. I already told you this woman clearly wants a particular type of man and that's fine.

If you aint it you aint it and not the type of man then it is what it is.

What I don't get is why you are upset and feel attacked about it as if it's any sort of indictment on you personally or as a man.

 

[Sbp]

Any man dating that trash ass hoe deserves get his pockets ran. Just look at her

 

[DrexlersFade]

Breh if the woman wants to be treated to a $200-$400 first date then that's on her. I already told you this woman clearly wants a particular type of man and that's fine.

If you aint it you aint it and not the type of man then it is what it is.

What I don't get is why you are upset and feel attacked about it as if it's any sort of indictment on you personally or as a man.

She not just speaking for herself whatever platform she on dumb ass women are going to listen and agree with this bullshyt and apply to they lives.

Which in turn will affect others this has nothing to do with me I'm married I don't deal with this fukk shyt.

 

[CashmereThoughts]

She said up to 400 I wasn't sweating the duece part that's normal hoe really wanted to say 4 which she actually said was good.

I was out shopping yesterday and had 3 tacos at this spot https://yelp.to/i2QYN1ikjob and it was more than 15. This is not a full service restaurant.

I don’t know about where you at but around these part s a date can easily go north of $300

 

[KING WILL]

Meanwhile in real life, most get red lobster, or Applebee's on 1st, 2nd, and 3rds dates.

While others getting smashed without going on dates at all.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

nah we going for coffee first date

if that don't work for you... beat it

 

[DrexlersFade]

I was out shopping yesterday and had 3 tacos at this spot https://yelp.to/i2QYN1ikjob and it was more than 15. This is not a full service restaurant.

I don’t know about where you at but around these part s a date can easily go north of $300

Sure it can not the first one though

 

[CashmereThoughts]

Sure it can not the first one though

preferably not. Helps to be strategic. I went to brunch with this Ethiopian shorty last a few weeks ago and the shyt was like 190 after tax/tip.

im def about to pulling the “I’m going to cook for you” card more often

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

Any man spending $200-400 on a first date is stupid
No matter if you got it
We about to go through some dark days in this economy
Furthermore, if you dropping that type of bread on a woman
It better be your wife, mother, sister or longtime partner
And I’m just going to say it, I’ll be a c00n/sambo
I already hate my black momma
It’s an elephant in the room
I’m tired of seeing black women being the face of this shyt
You don’t see no other race of women saying this goofy shyt
While these nonblack women be out here going on coffee dates and getting married in 1.5 years
Black women out here shooting themselves in the foot
Then want to complain about the dating pool
Well little momma, you just priced out any man that’s not making a certain amount, a man who is planning for the future, the man who is not into a “lifestyle” and only revolves his life around necessity
You can’t complain about finding a “good” man but box potential “good” men out like prime Shaq in the paint
The logic doesn’t add up

 

[VertigoKnight]

nah we going for coffee first date

if that don't work for you... beat it

Exactly. It's what I do these days and it never fails. A chick actually into you doesn't care where you go as the reason is to get to know each other.

I go on dinner dates once I know this is a woman I want to spend more time with.

 

[jadillac]

Y'all claim to make six figures and have unlimited disposable income so what's wrong with what she saying?

I could make a mil a yeae and wouldn't go around spending $400 on a chick i don't know and I would clearly be annoyed talking to after 5 mins

To be honest, she has her titties out like that bc she likely has gone on dates with dudes who ONLY want to smash, she just tryna get what she can bc dudes probably don't stick around long

 

[Jazzy B.]

I could make a mil a yeae and wouldn't go around spending $400 on a chick i don't know and I would clearly be annoyed talking to after 5 mins

To be honest, she has her titties out like that bc she likely has gone on dates with dudes who ONLY want to smash, she just tryna get what she can bc dudes probably don't stick around long

Breh stop it. A person who makes a million per year is looking at $400 as if it's $40 or even less.

They are not going to be fazed by a woman saying they want a $400 dollar date whatsoever because to them it's not a significant amount of money in relation to what they earn.

She not just speaking for herself whatever platform she on dumb ass women are going to listen and agree with this bullshyt and apply to they lives.

Which in turn will affect others this has nothing to do with me I'm married I don't deal with this fukk shyt.

If only "dumb ass women" are going to listen and apply this to their lives why is that a problem?