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[freetroit]

Listen to as much Suga Free as you possibly can.

Read Ester Vilar's "The Manipulated Man"


Remember.... it's not about "pimpin bytches and hoes" cause women aren't all "bytches and hoes". it's about staying secure in yourself and not falling for the okey doke.

Cause really, a lot of folks won't admit it out of pride, or shame or because they're milking it.... but we get told all the time that "It's a Man's World". Nah, it's really a system that was designed for you to fail as long as you exist in it.

@Aje you wanna hear some beautiful shyt? I see somebody already mentioned Patrice. Listen to his widow.

http://www.rosenbergradio.com/wordp...tein/Cipha_Rosenberg-S5EP115-Juan_Epstein.mp3

It really is a game and you know it is.

Don't conform.

Don't play the shyt.

Patrice oneal is great ambassador of the movement as well

 

[Aje]

D/l Iceberg Slim's audiobook.

 

[Turbulent]

Good looks, y'all.

Embarrassingly enough, I thought my way - the "treat them like queens" way - would work. :smh/

Finally, you're ultimately treating them how they like to be treated, so it's a win/win.

but really it's not about being mean to them either. it's about being firm. you have your principles. you stand firm by the principle no matter what. if she disrespects or violates, there are consequences. if she cooperates, then she's cool.

now here's where it gets tricky. a lot of people's game is to throw confusion in. basically making you doubt. now you're not sure if she meant to disrespect you or if you're misinterpreting what she did. so you give her the benefit of the doubt. now she knows that all she has to do is make the water blurry and you will give her passes. My solution to that is to just go with the feeling in your gut. if something happens and you're not sure, just listen to your gut as Patrice Oneal would say. this is not a court of law. you don't need proof beyond reasonable doubt to convict. all i need is to feel something is off and that's it. that way she won't even feel comfortable putting you in a position where her intentions aren't clear. she knows that if there is confusion, it won't be in her favor. so whether the confusion is caused by her or by an external factor, she has an incentive to clear out the confusion (assuming she wants to be with you).