Honestly, alot of women these days are single simply b/c they are flakey

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A woman is looking for the perfect man like a brother looking for the perfect job (or business opportunity) and just holding onto a current dude while she still looking. Like a brother sending out resumes still.
 

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Majority of women are the same (close to all) and if we as a collective (men) come to a realization of that then we'll be fine. Every dude thinks their woman is different or the women they pursue. Not the case.

You all about her and she all about hers - Lil' Wayne...

I have a girl and been through it all. ALL! What hurt me the most was thinking she was different at 15 years old. :snoop:
 

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I'm 21 bruh
I wanna say don't waste your 20's thinking about it. But I don't wanna give you advice that doesn't go with what's in your gut, and it has you fukked up in the game. But on some really real shyt fam, giving a fukk ain't really worth it yo. You go on a journey to figure this shyt out and it's like world level 8 in supermario you'll be 30 and still right where you started. Don't waste time givin a fukk about this shyt. That's me.
 

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I'm 36. ideally, I would like someone between 36-42. In the real world, I guess I'm about a 5-6; in the coli world, I rate about a 2.


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I'm 36. ideally, I would like someone between 36-42. In the real world, I guess I'm about a 5-6; in the coli world, I rate about a 2.


We're the same age.

Unfortunately, it seems like its harder for you women than it is for us men to date in our age range. Hell..If I were completely single I'd honestly date younger women (25-32). But thats mostly because thats what I attract, most women my age think I'm younger.
Also most of us are either married or in LTR's. But you still shouldn't have much of a problem, unless you one of the "hes not my type" sort of women, that ignored guys that don't fit there ideal of the type of man they "deserve"

Or it could be just your area and you're SOL...
 

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Ahh, your my ag



We're the same age.

Unfortunately, it seems like its harder for you women than it is for us men to date in our age range. Hell..If I were completely single I'd honestly date younger women (25-32). But thats mostly because thats what I attract, most women my age think I'm younger.
Also most of us are either married or in LTR's. But you still shouldn't have much of a problem, unless you one of the "hes not my type" sort of women, that ignored guys that don't fit there ideal of the type of man they "deserve"

Or it could be just your area and you're SOL...

I never understand that logic. I have a pretty open mindset about men I date, but I always wonder about people saying that. Its almost like, people telling you that you don't deserve to have preferences. You should basically take anything and be grateful. I don't have this laundry list of things a dude must have. I just want someone who is honest, kind, loyal, intelligent, selfless and most of all into me and me only.
 

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I never understand that logic. I have a pretty open mindset about men I date, but I always wonder about people saying that. Its almost like, people telling you that you don't deserve to have preferences. You should basically take anything and be grateful. I don't have this laundry list of things a dude must have. I just want someone who is honest, kind, loyal, intelligent, selfless and most of all into me and me only.
You damn well know that isn't what the fuss is about.
 

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height requirements, income, children, etc.

Those are SOME women's preferneces. I wouldn't disqualify a man for those things you listed, with the exception of children, but for some women those are non negotiable, not the best practice but people want what they want.
 

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at the end of the day its pretty much this.

but what the coli doesnt talk about is accidental simpin. I once had a bytch over to my crib when I lived in a loft in downtown KC. Everything to her disposal so I had it like that. I gave her the good D too. She spent damn near 2 hours tellin me how know one has ever blown it out like that, then spent the next two days texting "Im still wet" "Im sore ;)" then next weekend when it came time to do it again she was like "I dont know....I gotta see what im doin then i'll let you know"

I didnt spend a dime on her, no flowers. Just ordered food in and spent the night drinkin, smokin on the balcony and fukkin...she kept sayin how shes having/had an amazing time, its/was so much fun, never had a night like this....yadda yadda

Reality is it's too easy for women to get sex and time from a man, we can blow a girls back out and think we the bomb but in reality were nothing special. It's too easy for most women to get what they want, never challenged.

So it's easy to see why women act the way they do, their idea of love and ours is completely different.

I usually tell nikkas who are so p*ssy hungry to work on themselves first don't sweat hoes but most them don't understand really what I'm saying at all.

It's gonna be hard getting a woman's attention unless you can offer her something substantial. It's a reason most men probably hate women.
 

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I'm pretty sure that's how women feel about the dudes who keep them in a stable of mediocre women til they're flabby and sick waiting for 'the one'
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We're the same age.

Unfortunately, it seems like its harder for you women than it is for us men to date in our age range. Hell..If I were completely single I'd honestly date younger women (25-32). But thats mostly because thats what I attract, most women my age think I'm younger.
Also most of us are either married or in LTR's. But you still shouldn't have much of a problem, unless you one of the "hes not my type" sort of women, that ignored guys that don't fit there ideal of the type of man they "deserve"

Or it could be just your area and you're SOL...

I'm older than 36, the issue with women that age is you really can't teach them anything nor show them anything new, how can you lead a woman who's been lead to be blunt? What can I do to show you I'm different than the previous men you've had and at 36 what have you not seen before?

It's more like a companionship than a relationship at that age. Imo.

36 in female years in 60 in male years, in terms of experience with the opposite sex with most men.
 
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