Honestly, cheating is the only way to be happy in a relationship. UPDATE: I'm going to abstain

[karim]

This conversation is circular. Going nowhere. nikkas lie to get ass, the end.

Nah, you lie to get ass, people in healthy relationships don't

 

[Carlton Banks]

Did you set the atmosphere when she saw you again? Maybe she was looking for some recpicated energy to get her going.

Did you atleast inquire about the head?
Sounds like you rejected her in your head before she even got home.

Probably. But history is on my side. If she really wants to make things happen, it's on her. I've met her halfway one too many times. She's just gonna have to take it at this point, otherwise

 

[CW_1991]

Nah, you lie to get ass, people in healthy relationships don't

Shut your ass up. Pretending like it's not a norm these days.

 

[karim]

Shut your ass up. Pretending like it's not a norm these days.

Or maybe you just speak for yourself instead of projecting

 

[Wildhundreds]

Shut your ass up. Pretending like it's not a norm these days.

With the growth single moms raising men, it is.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I don't think I've ever had an issue with sex in any long term relationship I've been in. Not in the sense that they've withheld sex from me. Normally I'M the one who only wants to 1-2x a week when things are hectic at work, or just not as in the mood.

My females have always been down, and sex is never an issue. Idk if y'all are just not stroking it right, letting yourself go physically, or not connecting enough on an emotional level... But if you start lacking too much on either of the 3 then that'll do it.

Women never turn down sex with someone who is great at it.

 

[CW_1991]

Or maybe you just speak for yourself instead of projecting

So dudes are not lying to chicks to get ass en mass these days? How's that a projection?

You not liking it doesn't change the facts. It is what it is

 

[Speaking Womanese]

I personally couldn’t do it either

My cousin’s ex didn’t fukk him for 3 months and he ended up in the hospital on crutches.

He told us he was in there because he broke his foot, but my sisters bestie happened to be visiting her grandmother in the bed right next to his around the time so she overheard the nurse talking all his business

Turns out he didn’t ejaculate for 3 months and they had to drain his balls

He keeps a roster now.

 

[Peter Popoff]

I personally couldn’t do it either

My cousin’s ex didn’t fukk him for 3 months and he ended up in the hospital on crutches.

He told us he was in there because he broke his foot, but my sisters bestie happened to be visiting her grandmother in the bed right next to his around the time so she overheard the nurse talking all his business

Turns out he didn’t ejaculate for 3 months and they had to drain his balls

He keeps a roster now.

Wait! Is that real?

 

[Speaking Womanese]

Wait! Is that real?

Yup.

They put a syringe in the nutsack and drain the sperm out.

 

[Hiphoplives4eva]

Every relationship I've been in usually turns out the same. I realized most relationships are only really good the first 1-3 years. After that the same thing happens... she stops having sex. It starts to dwindle down until you eventually don't even recognize her or the relationship anymore. It happened with my ex and it's currently happening with my girl. She's perfect in every other department, but this. Yesterday she promised me head via text. Sloppy "deserved" head. I'm at a point where I don't even get excited over these things anymore cuz there's a 95% chance it won't happen. And guess what? Did it happen? No. But when she wants it and I'm not up for it, it's a whole other thing. So I'm just at a point where I'm done arguing about it, talking about it, etc. I'd be fine if we even went celibate for awhile. I don't wanna keep getting excited about the shyt only to get disappointed each time. I want consistent sex. She was talking about once a week. Granted, we're very busy with our individual lives and it's very understandable. My thing is, don't promise it to me, don't tease me about it. Don't even fukking talk about it. Cuz honestly I'm starting to find the peacefulness in celibacy. My libido used to be 10/10, but this shyt done dropped it to 3. Best believe if I had something on the side I wouldn't even be tripping. So I guess I just need to find a side chick with high libido. Seems like it's the only way. Hence why so many married men tend to be the thirstiest.

This is the reality of every marriage. It’s a reason faithfully married men have lower levels of testosterone.

 

[Hiphoplives4eva]

Yup.

They put a syringe in the nutsack and drain the sperm out.

Shut the fukk up with these lies. You dumb ninjas should post less.

 

[Rekkapryde]

Gotta love generalizations

 

[Peak]

I personally couldn’t do it either

My cousin’s ex didn’t fukk him for 3 months and he ended up in the hospital on crutches.

He told us he was in there because he broke his foot, but my sisters bestie happened to be visiting her grandmother in the bed right next to his around the time so she overheard the nurse talking all his business

Turns out he didn’t ejaculate for 3 months and they had to drain his balls

He keeps a roster now.

Isn't there a thread on here advocating no fap!?!

 

[( )-___-)]

Probably. But history is on my side. If she really wants to make things happen, it's on her. I've met her halfway one too many times. She's just gonna have to take it at this point, otherwise

Idk with that attitude it just seems like both of y’all are burdening yourselves.

Automatic head with minimal effort should never be a issue