Honestly, cheating is the only way to be happy in a relationship. UPDATE: I'm going to abstain

[karim]

Y'all really exposing yourselves. The average woman is not going to be okay with "I don't want anything serious, just want to have sex." But go ahead and keep selling this "internet lie." 9 outta 10 times the women that are down for sex with nothing in return are for the streets and are barely attractive. Knock it off.

And if you rebuttal with some bullshyt, I'ma need you dudes that "got it like that" to start dropping pics for research purposes

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

So stop wasting nikkas time

no no sweetie you're projecting. i tell the truth up front and they make informed decisions
none of that sneaking and lying shyt.
if they still want to try from there, i will give them a fair and honest shot.
but i def tell em
not bae, she's not for play
but let's face it, when you give 99% of people enough rope, they hang themselves lol

 

[GhettoTeK]

Every relationship I've been in usually turns out the same. I realized most relationships are only really good the first 1-3 years. After that the same thing happens... she stops having sex. It starts to dwindle down until you eventually don't even recognize her or the relationship anymore. It happened with my ex and it's currently happening with my girl. She's perfect in every other department, but this. Yesterday she promised me head via text. Sloppy "deserved" head. I'm at a point where I don't even get excited over these things anymore cuz there's a 95% chance it won't happen. And guess what? Did it happen? No. But when she wants it and I'm not up for it, it's a whole other thing. So I'm just at a point where I'm done arguing about it, talking about it, etc. I'd be fine if we even went celibate for awhile. I don't wanna keep getting excited about the shyt only to get disappointed each time. I want consistent sex. She was talking about once a week. Granted, we're very busy with our individual lives and it's very understandable. My thing is, don't promise it to me, don't tease me about it. Don't even fukking talk about it. Cuz honestly I'm starting to find the peacefulness in celibacy. My libido used to be 10/10, but this shyt done dropped it to 3. Best believe if I had something on the side I wouldn't even be tripping. So I guess I just need to find a side chick with high libido. Seems like it's the only way. Hence why so many married men tend to be the thirstiest.

Maybe relationships aren’t your thing or you two outgrown each other. Perhaps express yourself to her

 

[SleezyBigSlim]

Don't react. Why don't we have an edit button anymore?

We do you just cant find it

 

[Action Mike]

I don’t know why people insist in staying in something as fleeting as a bf/gf situation.

Y’all don’t have kids together so what do y’all really have? Memories?

Just move on and find someone else.

Easy to type but not do

 

[Black_Jesus]

Sure if your life and decisions are controlled by your lower self

 

[MaxPain]

Having 1 is too close to none…

Evolve on that.

 

[Carlton Banks]

Having 1 is too close to none…

Evolve on that.

I love this

 

[valet]

..

 

[Yagirlcheatinonus]

Semen retention

 

[Dave24]

Semen retention

@Yagirlcheatinonus will semen retention help me form falling for women so fast and catching feelings so easily? I get easily infatuated with women.

 

[karim]

still can't believe op made several threads in one day about how he is incapable of satisfying woman

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

I have a different stance...

For me, I believe that communication, honesty/transparency is the to having a successful relationship.

I stand on it!

I see no need to cheat. Just tell your significant other that you will seek affection/intimacy from someone else, if your significant other chooses not to be affectionate/intimate with you.

Intimacy isn't negotiable!

Life is too short to be playing games! If someone wanna do their own thing and not be honest with their intentions, then that is a cue for you to do your own thing and whatever happens will happen, feelings be damned!

How one starts a relationship should be the template of how things should go. People do change, evolve, etc. But, communication, honesty and integrity should always remain the same.

What is meant to be will be! It is what it is!

If you can freely be intimate with someone else because your own desires (which are only your own) aren't being met by your partner, then you probably dont care about the person, like you think. What you just said is extremely manipulative, selfish and worrisome...because you can't control your own desires (again, has nothing to do with the other person).

Youre taking wonderful gifts and using them in the wrong ways: transparency and honesty are gifts from the heart, not tools of manipulation. And that is exactly how you are using them. When you truly look at what you're saying, it's very sick.

 

[Bossino]

If you can freely be intimate with someone else because your own desires (which are only your own) aren't being met by your partner, then you probably dont care about the person, like you think. What you just said is extremely manipulative, selfish and worrisome...because you can't control your own desires (again, has nothing to do with the other person).

Youre taking wonderful gifts and using them in the wrong ways: transparency and honesty are gifts from the heart, not tools of manipulation. And that is exactly how you are using them. When you truly look at what you're saying, it's very sick.

fukkouttahere b, she ain't fukking the relationship is dunskis. Take the L out of LOVER, because it's OVER brother shyt ain't up for discussion. A broad depriving a man of one of the 3 things he needs (food, shelter, sex) is what is sick

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

The sex might be wack. A lotta women fake it. If she’s never experienced an actual orgasm with you then sex is a chore. It’s just another thing on her plate she would rather avoid.

Communicate with her about why she isn’t sexual anymore. You’ve also indicated that this has happened to you several times. Women’s sex drive can fluctuate but what I’ve noticed is that it ain’t really women’s sex drive. In some cases it’s women’s willingness to fake an orgasm that changes. She might have been excited about the prospect of being with you initially and decided to overlook some wack sex in the beginning because she in love and gooey about you. But once the love wears off and ya’ll done got on each other’s nerves a few times, the prospect of having sex with somebody you not even cumming with won’t work. Sometimes women get pushed by society to overlook important shyt in men like looks or attraction, just to say they got a man. (See that entitled physicist thread) So they end up just grinning and bearing it for the sake of the relationship. But that shyt gets old fast and when it does, if you don’t even have good sex to tide you over, it’s a wrap.

Is there any romance in your relationship? What’s the foreplay like? How much time are y’all actually spending being intimate vs. fukking? And there is a difference. Many men don’t understand intimacy because they’ve been educated by porn or take a selfish outlook to sex. However, building intimacy is important. Women don’t just automatically get wet like they do in porn over nothing.

In any case, there’s a lot you can do before you jump straight to cheating. And if you do cheat, consider how you would feel if she does the same to you. Because if she isn’t enjoying sex with you to the extent that she doesn’t even wanna screw you…she might already be stepping out anyway.

I wish you well either way.

Intimacy is huge.
With women it's basically everything..
Sex with them is mostly mental so.if she's checked out...her shyt will be dry as the Sahara.