If you can freely be intimate with someone else because your own desires (which are only your own) aren't being met by your partner, then you probably dont care about the person, like you think. What you just said is extremely manipulative, selfish and worrisome...because you can't control your own desires (again, has nothing to do with the other person).
Youre taking wonderful gifts and using them in the wrong ways: transparency and honesty are gifts from the heart, not tools of manipulation. And that is exactly how you are using them. When you truly look at what you're saying, it's very sick.
Hmm..
So, basically you chose to take everything out of context..
Cool..
Because I know that you don't personally know me, I will stall you out by not taking offense to your accusations.
First, I stand on what I said! I don't believe that I am being manipulative at all. I would say that I would be petty because I would be practicing tit for tat.
But, in reality, any woman who tries to play sex politics with me would simply get charged to the game! Straight up! I would not be in a committed relationship with anyone who doesn't respect me nor the relationship.
Next, I am very aware of what communication & transparency entails. My girlfriend ain't complaining & neither am I that's for damn sure!
Perhaps you may be someone who like to manipulate and emotionally abuse your significant other by practicing sex politics and just mad at me because I am someone who wouldn't put up with such nonsense, but for me, I don't care about the opinions of a stranger, especially one who chooses to remain a stranger.
Bottomline, you are entitled to your opinion, but just know that it is what it is..an opinion, not a fact!
