I didn't say "so what" I said i respect the fact that some people find it offensive.
As you say code language exists. Like the way the word "thug" is thrown around to reference young black folks. I get that, but that doesn't mean I'm gonna think EVERYONE who uses the word is a racist, nore do I think it should be eradicated from everyday language.
And furthermore that code language we fight against as real social implications IE Michael Brown was a "thug" therefore his death was justifiable.
I don't see any clear negative social implications of using the word female over woman.
the clear negative social implication is that females are nothing more than sexual objects so their mistreatment is justifiable.

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at everything that takes the side of women having to do with getting puss. Everything taking the side of black folks must be about rap huh? 

i always thought it was the context, i.e. telling someone like 'thats a female trait' usually has a negative connotation



