Your last sentence is not how it works
If you want to stand on that statement
Then the married couple should have stated it explicitly in the itinerary/invitations
They didn’t do that because they knew whole heartedly nobody would come to that shyt
People go to big weddings to turn up, hook up and enjoy themselves
You can spend 6 bands on Mickey/Minnie but not 6 bands to feed your guest
If that ain’t the true definition of hustling backwards/priorities be damned
Coulda took they simple asses to the courthouse and had a destination honeymoon to Disney(both of em) for that 6 bands