"HOT" girl finds out how hard it is to be an average guy on Tinder

[Apprentice]

Good women should be picky online
It’s more dangerous for them
Incels want a women to meet everyone she matches with lol

They not “picky” online fool

And why every convo about men and women on here u quick to speak on incels

I was watchin love island the other day and the lady said it best

“I love dating apps, it’s where u can manage all the boys

If u a man who fukk wit who u are, u should not be on dating apps hoping the washed up, mentally ill, narcissistic women on there are choosing U

Unless u tryna get beats fr, if u lookin for love then sorry bud

 

[Primetime]

I thank God that I'm neither below 6 ft, Gen Z or have the current need to get out there and date. When I was in my early 20's dating seemed to be relatively easy for me. This was prior to tinder and instagram. I didn't really appreciate how hard it is for a lot of young men until I heard their experiences. And supposedly the online dating marketplace is even worse for young black males.

This was actually a well done short video.

The most important thing was said in the first minute, where ol girl stated that Instagram is the number 1 dating "app" for women. The rest of the video just puts into perspective how much dudes get hustled by modern dating apps, specifically the micro-transactions (super likes, roses, boosts, subs, etc).

And altho they only lightly touched on this, the fact that she had potential matches that she passed on bc she felt they weren't on the same level as her fake profile guy... that touches on what i've mentioned before that women imo typically like to date up. If you're an avg guy, you'll probably have a decent amount of below avg women down for you. But the avg women may feel more entitled around you (which is someting the chick experienced in the vid), bc they're really pursuing an above avg guy. So it was funny that she didn't even pick up on that, bc she was thinking of it from the guys perspective of "well i'm an avg lookin guy so why can't i get avg ("cute") women to commit?"

 

[Brandsdale]

These social experiments that attractive women do online are fukkin tiring now man

im not watching this shyt and giving this braud views when I know men are just gonna get blamed in the video and the comments anyway

 

[Mowgli]

Just start taking brazillian jiujitsu. Ull become an above average man who primary yearly objectives consist of dodging pregnancies

 

[Yas]

Dating apps are in women favor which is good because those men just want sex any ways. Some of my friends just use dating apps like tinder for a confidence booster. I still think dating is harder for women though especially if they are trying to look for a decent partner.

 

[Iceson Beckford]

Hinge is the best chance you’ll get

Dating apps should be a fun supplement

 

[StarClout]

If Hinge had a weight filter it’d be the Undisputed GOAT

I’m pretty upfront on dating apps:

No Holy Rollers (I’m Christian myself, but have always hated those overly religious/Holy Roller types)
No Conservatives/MAGAts
You’ll get blocked/unmatched if I get the inkling you’re wasting my time (I can get more money to recover from a failed date, but my time I can’t get back)
Any Kids=Blocked
No big girls (I do Brazilian Jiu Jitsu/other martial arts/am fairly in shape so I want someone who also is in decent shape cause from a health perspective, big girls are a liability cause they’re typically prone to health problems later down the road and I’m not in the market to be a caretaker later in life)

Most stuff I can work with, but some is just nah. The Premium subscription helps filter out most of this, but you’d be surprised what slips through the cracks. So I have this stuff in my profile so they don’t act shocked when they try to match me and I block them

With all that said, I do pretty well on dating apps for the most part

 

[Still Benefited]

This is all unimportant bullshyt. Do people not having anything constructive or positive going on in their lives?

You sure we still headed for slavery? Everyone seems pretty comfortable around here to me?



"Pawgs are the only reason for existing" is the latest debacle of a thread I just saw

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

I think it does matter at some point. As much as we want to discount the experiences of young men it ultimately effects us. I think its pushing a lot of young men in our society to adopt toxic far right ideologies.

There is a very direct path from loneliness lack of intimacy to mental health issues. The radicalization you see and the growth of manosphere movements, the emergence of incels. All this ties together. At base minimum we have biological obligations to meet as men to feel like men. What has happened is men have lost their purpose on that level and the repercussions are bad for society overall. Idle men with no commitments in life. All these men with shyt jobs and no dating prospects all combined = a ticking time bomb.

I work with a lot of people who come from Asian countries and they all have wives no matter how fat tall short skinny broke they are. These men have a purpose as providers and they have a drive and a focus that is not there for a lot of modern Western men. Our toxic popular culture has broken the dating scene. The dating apps cater to vanity as do social media.

 

[null]

"ow my ballz tv"

 

[null]

best thing about the video

Spoiler: ...

 

[Remote]

they didn’t have to end the video like that.

Poor guy.

 

[Givethanks]

This is all unimportant bullshyt. Do people not having anything constructive or positive going on in their lives?

To answer your question, Yes

Is it silly, yes. I been wondering why cameras/the need to go viral. Make people do the most.

But social and behaviour sciences are interesting as hell.




She looks like my coworkers ex wife.

 

[Vandelay]

This video is going to fall on deaf ears. Women aren't to see their hypocrisy and it's victimization porn for the red pill adjacent. Historically, women have mostly wanted the upper echelon men. For what it's worth, dudes have always wanted the best looking woman they could get.

Is it fair, no. Because generally we should be looking for well-rounded partners and compatibility. Marriage tried to equalize this over the centuries, but as the world got more globalized and virtualized, it destroyed the limitations on who you could pair up with. Which wouldn't be a bad thing if we weren't stuck with the paradox of infinite options. You often pass by someone you're 80-90% compatible with to find that 6 foot, 6 pack, 6 cert, 6 figure unicorn.

I don't know what the answer is. Part of me hopes AI poisons the internet and we start doing things locally again. I don't know how else you reverse the trend.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

nikkas gotta stop using dating apps all together, puts the power in a woman hands too much

Real life get the job done

Even in real life this shyt is ass for millennials too