It's shows how out of touch or delusional these dudes are. They want to smash multiple women and keep their options open but they don't want the chicks doing it because somehow it's wrong. If you're actively dating it's expected for her to be doing that as well too. That's the point of dating for both of y'all to show each other you're a viable option to settle down with. In the process of this all the other folks in rotation fall off the train because you're giving this person all of your attention and vice versa. They want to give low effort but still expect the whole cake at the end. That's why a lot of y'all struggle out here. Y'all got too much penis envy and worried about what other men are/aren't doing instead of being yourself and running your race. Just some lame goofies
Hours after 1st Date She Let Another Man Hit | Boyfriend finds out 4 Months Later
- Thread starter Sonny Bonds
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Breh this was the 1st date, you can't expect any everlasting connection on the 1st date. She clearly had interest in dude as they coupled up.
Um so let me get this straight both single and she let another dude hit right after probably same fukk buddy after the date. I see nothing wrong with it.
What I have an issue is why he in her phone already 4 months in and then her lying that’s on both of them
No different if he did the same feel out process she was horny got dikk but obviously enjoyed the date but didn’t want to give it up to him to quickly cus of judgement reasons which I get
He played himself just cuz she got some and he had to wait aint tied to her and went thru her phone also
She played herself for lying just say ya I did we weren’t exclusive didn’t want to give it up so quick to you
That’s just how I feel u do u I do me when we’re both single
What I have an issue is why he in her phone already 4 months in and then her lying that’s on both of them
No different if he did the same feel out process she was horny got dikk but obviously enjoyed the date but didn’t want to give it up to him to quickly cus of judgement reasons which I get
He played himself just cuz she got some and he had to wait aint tied to her and went thru her phone also
She played herself for lying just say ya I did we weren’t exclusive didn’t want to give it up so quick to you
That’s just how I feel u do u I do me when we’re both single
Mordith
H.E.N.R.Y.
What more are you determining from a first date besides, "I want to hit that?"
Dudes heads be in the clouds breh
This ain’t the 80s
Only argument some men might have is that they the ones paying for the date so they might expect some respect. But unfortunately it dont work that way. Its why one may argue you shouldnt be spending any significant money on a girl who isnt yours or at least showing you she wants to be yours until yall smash
What more are you determining from a first date besides, "I want to hit that?"
It depends.
Are you looking for a relationship, or only sex?
Judging by the fact it sounds like they were dating for several months after that, it sounds like it was more than just looking for sex.
I don’t care how some of y’all try to spin it, but fukking a dude RIGHT after going on a date with a different dude is mad disrespectful. It would be one thing if it was a bad date and she had this dude lined up just in case, but the fact that she eventually got in a relationship with this dude says otherwise. If he made a good enough impression on that first date to the point she saw potential in him to stay with him, she should’ve cut that other dude off, especially when the other dude never committed to her.
Yeah some men do. I do. I think a lot of brehs don't date their wages. I can go out multiple times a weeks and spend 70, 80,90,etc. a pop of I feel like it. It doesn't always have to be sex. Sometimes I just want that feminine presence around me for conversation. A lot of times it leads to sex. But I have the choice to say no or not depending on how I feel or I might have somewhere else I planning on falling through later that evening.
So if she had interest and they went on and dated for several months, then why immediately want to call the side-guy?
You would trust someone like that? And if you wouldn't trust them is it because that is shady behavior?
Mordith
H.E.N.R.Y.
And this is why dude said you don't sound like you have had much dating experience.
It's unwise for any nikka to be mentally thinking relationship before he has even fukked the broad.
Do you know how many women I have completely lost interest in after I fukked?
A lot of them don't know how to date. They think that because you go on a date and spend money she's guaranteed to sleep with you at the end. They sound like a cornball and thirsty and chics can pick up on that energy. Especially when you're going over the top to try to impress her. Just be yourself but a lot of them don't know how. They're so intertwined with their online persona they don't know how to be a normal human being. That's why I'm there to smash her after he takes her on a date.
F**k that! Good for OP. Filled her stomach only for some dude to burn the calories off.
Op was the side guy breh, she was already fukking the other dude before she met OP