Hours after 1st Date She Let Another Man Hit | Boyfriend finds out 4 Months Later

[Uitomy]

The only thing that matters (baring she's not crazy or is currently carrying stds) is that you can make your girl hit that sexual limit

Don't matter who hit it when you hit it best

 

[africngiant]

i had a lightskin ting offering to suck me up in my car if i brought a towel before we even linked while i was already talking to this other lightskin ting.

i was stalling out to be loyal for her only for the suck up girl to end up eventually stop texting me.

the original one ended up leaving anyway SMH. all this shyt is a waste of time

 

[Mugenight]

You nikkas are confusing ego with tolerance, or lack thereof.

Indeed.

 

[BrehWyatt]

You nikkas are confusing ego with tolerance, or lack thereof.

Ego can determine/influence what somebody will tolerate.

The issue isn't having an ego or deciding not to tolerate it. I agree with what he did. He weighed the situation against his boundaries and chose to move around. He did the right thing. I don't like how she moved, but she didn't owe him any loyalty or exclusivity until they became exclusive.

By his own admission, he went snooping around for it, and he found what he was looking for. Read through that thread, and you'll see that ego played a role, given his feelings and subsequent response to the situation. As he said, what she did and the details surrounding it made him feel like her second choice.

OP says things like "I went into this fully prepared to find someone to build a future with, and she decided she couldn't wait a week without some dikk from somebody who only sees her as a hole" and "she's been downgraded to random calls when I get horny"

Whether he stood on business or not, there's a little bitterness from his side.

 

[Toe Jay Simpson]

If it was a standard booty call I say let it slide

Now if it was next level, if he was finishing in that mouth or she was eating his bootyhole than let her go

 

[Richard Glidewell]

True to life best believe if she will double up in the same day there is more beneath the surface than can been seen in 4 months.

 

[Morose Polymath]

Funny quick story:

Met a thick joint (with a Miami BBL) off Hinge, she was diggin ya manz heavy but I was lukewarm on her plus she had a damn dog and I hate pets. I eventually hit and tore her ass out the frame, but I told her upfront it prolly wouldn't go no where cause of that dog. She was sick, but no lie she says to me.... "That's wack but its fine I'll just keep fukking you while I date other guys and try to find Mr. Right"........... I was on the horn listening to shorty like


The game is the game and its a cold one. Don't settle for less and Don't chase these women brehs. Cause if they really fukking with you, they'll make it easy for you.

 

[Still Benefited]

This is gonna get glossed all the way over. Dudes think they own a female after one date. The same way you (should) have females on deck she has men on deck. A lot of fellas just do not wanna accept this. He even points out they weren't exclusive.

Well thats fine if women dont want to be courted anymore. But if they do want to be courted they need to respect the courting proccess. Its impossible for a woman to be fully engaged with another man while getting her black blown out by another.


Even if our first date got you so hot and bothered that you had to go get your rocks off,But didnt want to increase your body count with me? Still shows you have a casual mentality when it comes to penis. So that move is showing the opposite of what she may have intended.


If you are able to have the mentality of "its just sex". These are the type of people who will say the same thing at any other point in the relationship, When they need to rationalize cheating on you. Or even entertaining other men in general. Word to wise,leave these "its just......" type of people alone,generally speaking.


With that said you should never move based on generalities. Its not something i would dump what seems to be a good woman otherwise. Just something to take note of. But im sure those reddit incels/redpillers gassed him up,hope hes happy with his decision

 

[247Alex]

Ayo lol bro can’t get her getting bent by someone else out his head
At least he know the type of woman he really with now
Make a choice and move on. Lmao

 

[Po pimp]

So if she had interest and they went on and dated for several months, then why immediately want to call the side-guy?

You would trust someone like that? And if you wouldn't trust them is it because that is shady behavior?

I sent the OP story to my homegirl and she said she doesn’t see the big deal aside from the fact that she lied. Then she also said for dude to bring it up is a bytch move

She also said if she found out that her husband had called some bytch to fukk right after their first date, she wouldn’t care.

 

[KidJSoul]

Happens way more often than dudes know

She owed him nothing after only one date. They were basically strangers

I think too many responses in here are focusing on the lie. It's the act that matters, not the cover up. When a woman does this the relationship becomes cursed. He probably went through her phone because he suspected something. Everyone is free to do as they like when they are single; however, those who live this type of lifestyle are eventually found out and have to deal with the consequences.

I've had women ask me on the first date if I was seeing someone else and then after the second tell me that if I sleep with someone else while we are talking then she is bouncing, only for them to later tell me they were sleeping with someone else or did sleep with someone else at some point when things got murky. People like that are scandalous, and there is no way to flip it. It's okay not to be naive and know this may be or probably is happening, but also it's okay not to accept it.

This is why the only answer to this is to not spend much on a first date.

Im not even going to criticize the woman too much, because they weren't official (albeit I do agree that if they were together, it means the first date was good, so you wonder how long she was keeping the other dudes on the roster).

This is why men are no longer romantic or court women anymore. Its just common sense.

 

[Payday23]

She didn't. At the same time, why is she going on dates if she's already getting fukked by some dude? You'd never hear the end of it if the roles were reversed and a woman finds out you fukked another bytch after dropping her off at home on your first date.

Because the dude railing her doesn't want her

 

[Payday23]

Light work. Nothing.
She dropped off her little military simp boyfriend and then raced to a hotel to get d1cked down for the whole world to see. Didnt even change clothes. Infamous.

A goat scene too

 

[R.B.J1]

OP seems a little possessive...or he's hurt that he caught her in a lie. My first date with my was lunch on a Wednesday. She told me she was going to a concert on Friday night with her ex boyfriend (Bernie Mac was opening for Frankie Beverly and Maze) didnt bother me one bit because I had a date with a CeCe Peniston look a like on that same night. OP really shouldnt care what she did before they were an item.

 

[TheNig]

Whether he stood on business or not, there's a little bitterness from his side.

And how is that a problem?

He spent a better part of the night on a date with her, only for her to go and creep with someone else. We can assume that it was nice date because 4 months later they were in a relationship.

Cuh has every right to be bitter.

Whether we went to Waffle House or Ruth Chris, if I found out my lady stepped out with the one nikka that's always there...

But again, for me it's tolerance. I cut a bytch off for suggesting that I was still in love with my ex-wife. I get annoyed very easily.