Hours after 1st Date She Let Another Man Hit | Boyfriend finds out 4 Months Later

[Umoja]

You’re the simp in this scenario

We the realistic ones who don’t have monogamous expectations and fantasies with girls we just meet. Especially a bad bytch, there’s gonna be competition. That’s ok, that’s how the world works. When there’s a baseline and you’ve had the conversation about exclusivity is when you can start simping. A bytch owes yall nothing. Just like you don’t owe a bytch nothing until yall have that convo

You sound like caricature.

We're upwards of 30. Calling women the women you deal with bad bytches is up there with saying pause at the end of every other sentence. You're not convincing or impressing anyone with substance. You just look like a mentally stunted fool stuck in the 00s.

The bottom line is men like you are easy to manipulate. You can posture as much as you like. What it all boils down to is the fear of letting someone go once you've established a boundary.

 

[OneManGang]

You sound like caricature.

We're upwards of 30. Calling women the women you deal with bad bytches is up there with saying pause at the end of every other sentence. You're not convincing or impressing anyone with substance. You just look like a mentally stunted fool stuck in the 00s.

The bottom line is men like you are easy to manipulate. You can posture as much as you like. What it all boils down to is the fear of letting someone go once you've established a boundary.

All I’m getting from this is you’re mad I live in the real world and understand how this works. at you thinking I need to impress Coli nikkas. If you’re impressed at my real life then that’s on you.

I live in a world of excess, so I’d never let a situation like this even be on my mental. Never been manipulated in my life, bc I don’t attach myself to women expecting much until I have adult conversations with them.

 

[Trav]

Ain't that long enough to be invested on his end. Best to cut bait while he can.

 

[ORDER_66]

Quick question... in the story while the boyfriend found out about her having sex with another dude... WAS she still in communication with other dude from that time and THAT's why he went through her phone!?!?! Alot of women be doing that, be hiding side nikkas in their phones under fake names and shyt...

 

[Umoja]

All I’m getting from this is you’re mad I live in the real world and understand how this works. at you thinking I need to impress Coli nikkas. If you’re impressed at my real life then that’s on you.

I live in a world of excess, so I’d never let a situation like this even be on my mental. Never been manipulated in my life, bc I don’t attach myself to women expecting much until I have adult conversations with them.

You’re not fooling anyone

 

[LebronsHairline]

Clearly the broad wasnt into the nicca

 

[Jazzy B.]

They make fun of women for having that Disney fantasy. But sounds like some of these dudes was sitting right next to their sister watching Cinderella

 

[Big Blue]

I'm not going to pretend that I've never been in another chicks guts after a first date

 

[RamsayBolton]

I'm not going to pretend that I've never been in another chicks guts after a first date

you shoulda been thinking about the ring instead smh.

 

[BrehWyatt]

How refusing the be the second in line "insecurity"?

I preface this by saying I can understand OP's reaction...

The "insecurity part" comes from the fact that they entered a presumably exclusive relationship after the fact. He may have been second in line that night, but he ultimately became first in line. All respect to him for not bending on his boundaries once he received new information, etc. Still, he ended up getting the girl.

Quick question... in the story while the boyfriend found out about her having sex with another dude... WAS she still in communication with other dude from that time and THAT's why he went through her phone!?!?! Alot of women be doing that, be hiding side nikkas in their phones under fake names and shyt...

OP mentioned that he went looking for information due to a gut feeling or whatever. What he found confirmed his suspicions or whatever. The last bit of communication they had, according to the OP, took place about a month after OP and the chick became an item. Buddy tried to hit her up and she promptly told him that she was in a relationship with OP and blocked him.

Unfortunately for her, OP found the texts/communication before that moment in her phone.

 

[Lamar Givens]

God forbid a nikka wants to meet a woman with morals and self respect, but once again, these threads just expose the nikkaz whose moms was hoes and didn’t teach them the game. Sheesh

 

[ORDER_66]

P mentioned that he went looking for information due to a gut feeling or whatever. What he found confirmed his suspicions or whatever. The last bit of communication they had, according to the OP, took place about a month after OP and the chick became an item. Buddy tried to hit her up and she promptly told him that she was in a relationship with OP and blocked him.

Unfortunately for her, OP found the texts/communication before that moment in her phone.

Ahhh i see so his gut feeling was right...

 

[MMS]

The only thing that matters (baring she's not crazy or is currently carrying stds) is that you can make your girl hit that sexual limit

Don't matter who hit it when you hit it best

yeah you can't control people

but you can expect a different attitude towards a new partner (in both directions) otherwise one side will always feel like they are being taken advantage of

 

[theflyest]

As you age, it’s really hard to give a fukk about this kind of stuff. For the yn’s reading this now you’ll see.

 

[Payday23]

Ain't that long enough to be invested on his end. Best to cut bait while he can.

Yep..his trial period was over