Hours after 1st Date She Let Another Man Hit | Boyfriend finds out 4 Months Later

[MeachTheMonster]

The assumption would be that a single person that hasn’t committed to any one person would be free to do what they want.

 

[Apprentice]

This thread showed me who’s p*ssy on this site

 

[Umoja]

"You owe no one anything"

Same nergoes will turn around and preach black unity and love.

You cats are confused on another level.

Except a relationship when you as a man decides to walk away, apparently.

 

[gho3st]

Threads like this confirm my suspicions that the majority of you nikkas don't get pussay.

As a nikka who always has always had miscellaneous pussay around between relationships, I have always continued fukking someone else before a relationship becomes exclusive.

What type of time are you nikkas on?

Aint nothing like keeping p*ssy lukewarm...its tricky tho bc shorty can fck around , go date and block you...

 

[num123]

I’m not surprised by most of the responses in this thread. Nobody is exclusive after one date, and if you’re the type to think this is egregious, you most likely think someone going on date with you equals interest, and commitment.

You can date intentionally, and still sleep with people you know aren’t going to be the one. Some people are cool to talk to, hangout with, but they aren’t the one for you. That doesn’t mean they are low quality, they just aren’t the one for you, but you’re physically attracted to them. If both parties are honest, I don’t see the problem. Human beings have needs, and to expect a woman to ignore her needs after ONE date, and most of y’all are only doing drinks, and coffee on a first date, then expect her to cut all other men off after $30 max, because you gave her a good conversation is crazy to me.

All that shyt sounds cool but the people mixing committed dating with FWB would never tell their current partners or even their new dates how they move. People that do that know why that most of them don't do that, because the reaction would be less than stellar.

"This date was great and we need to set another one up, but i have to get out of here. One of the guys i am fukking hit me up while we were bowling so I am about to get my back blown out after this. Dinner date next?" or "These last few dates have been great. I feel like we have a real connection but until i think we are serious I am going to keep fukking other women. Matter of fact one of them just hit me up so I got to get out of here."

Or what about after the fact when you get "serious"? "You remember that guy I said was just an old friend when we ran into him on our date? He was tearing my ass up after that date and some more after. It does not matter now since we are a couple now right?"

People complain about the type and quality of partners all of the goddamn time yet will still be the ones pulling shyt like this. Ask the average man would he be fine with a woman that he is dating or is now in a committed relationship that she was fukking other men until she thought they were "serious". Ask the average woman the same question and the response would be the same.

As I said before, it does not take a long time to know if you like someone, a few dates is enough. It does not take months or a month but at the most a few weeks to know if you want to have a relationship with someone. No one owes you a relationship after a date but if you are dating someone with serious intentions, they deserve monogamy during that time as do you.

 

[Scaaar]

All that shyt sounds cool but the people mixing committed dating with FWB would never tell their current partners or even their new dates how they move. People that do that know why that most of them don't do that, because the reaction would be less than stellar.

"This date was great and we need to set another one up, but i have to get out of here. One of the guys i am fukking hit me up while we were bowling so I am about to get my back blown out after this. Dinner date next?" or "These last few dates have been great. I feel like we have a real connection but until i think we are serious I am going to keep fukking other women. Matter of fact one of them just hit me up so I got to get out of here."

Or what about after the fact when you get "serious"? "You remember that guy I said was just an old friend when we ran into him on our date? He was tearing my ass up after that date and some more after. It does not matter now since we are a couple now right?

People complain about the type and quality of partners all of the goddamn time yet will still be the ones pulling shyt like this. Ask the average man would he be fine with a woman that he is dating or is now in a committed relationship that she was fukking other men until she thought they were "serious". Ask the average woman the same question and the response would be the same.

As I said before, it does not take a long time to know if you like someone, a few dates is enough. It does not take months or a month but at the most a few weeks to know if you want to have a relationship with someone. No one owes you a relationship after a date but if you are dating someone with serious intentions, they deserve monogamy during that time as do you.

If me and her wasn't in a serious committed relationship. I don't give a f*ck what she did before I locked her. She's with me now in the present and future that's all I care about. Y'all sound insecure, controlling, and cornballs trying to dictate what a chick was or wasn't doing before you. Y'all just can't stop thinking about another man's meat....even with a chic you're actively dating/pursuing That's how I know a lot of y'all on this site ain't the nikkas y'all swear y'all think you are talking like this

 

[folasade]

If me and her wasn't in a serious committed relationship. I don't give a f*ck what she did before I locked her. She's with me now in the present and future that's all I care about. Y'all sound insecure, controlling, and cornballs trying to dictate what a chick was or wasn't doing before you. Y'all just can't stop thinking about another man's meat....even with a chic you're actively dating/pursuing That's how I know a lot of y'all on this site ain't the nikkas y'all swear y'all think you are talking like this

He's expecting monogamy from a woman when he hasn't even gotten past the first date.

 

[Ohene]

All that shyt sounds cool but the people mixing committed dating with FWB would never tell their current partners or even their new dates how they move. People that do that know why that most of them don't do that, because the reaction would be less than stellar.

"This date was great and we need to set another one up, but i have to get out of here. One of the guys i am fukking hit me up while we were bowling so I am about to get my back blown out after this. Dinner date next?" or "These last few dates have been great. I feel like we have a real connection but until i think we are serious I am going to keep fukking other women. Matter of fact one of them just hit me up so I got to get out of here."

Or what about after the fact when you get "serious"? "You remember that guy I said was just an old friend when we ran into him on our date? He was tearing my ass up after that date and some more after. It does not matter now since we are a couple now right?"

People complain about the type and quality of partners all of the goddamn time yet will still be the ones pulling shyt like this. Ask the average man would he be fine with a woman that he is dating or is now in a committed relationship that she was fukking other men until she thought they were "serious". Ask the average woman the same question and the response would be the same.

As I said before, it does not take a long time to know if you like someone, a few dates is enough. It does not take months or a month but at the most a few weeks to know if you want to have a relationship with someone. No one owes you a relationship after a date but if you are dating someone with serious intentions, they deserve monogamy during that time as do you.

irrelevant.

i done fukked dozens of women in my life. if i am in a relationship with a chick am I going to randomly tell her that shyt? no.

people withold information from their dates and partners all the time. certain things are on a need to know, dont ask, dont tell basis.

 

[Scaaar]

He's expecting monogamy from a woman when he hasn't even gotten past the first date.

They want her body count number, who was the most recent partner, did she enjoy it, etc. they spend more time trying to measure up to the previous men then actually being present on the date

 

[num123]

If me and her wasn't in a serious committed relationship. I don't give a f*ck what she did before I locked her. She's with me now in the present and future that's all I care about. Y'all sound insecure, controlling, and cornballs trying to dictate what a chick was or wasn't doing before you. Y'all just can't stop thinking about another man's meat....even with a chic you're actively dating/pursuing That's how I know a lot of y'all on this site ain't the nikkas y'all swear y'all think you are talking like this

Yes, I am controlling because I hope the woman I am dating is not fukking other men before she thinks we are serious or a couple. You dudes are some cucks for real.

"I mean, we have been dating for 4 weeks but so what she is getting her back blown out by other men while seeing me? I don't care she probably is about to fukk another man right after i took her to a restaurant, I'm not insecure. I could pick her up from his house after he just nutted on her face, I don't own her!"

Some of the most bytch made shyt i have ever heard. I am not usually on that timing but the cuck alarm has been ringing all through this thread.

 

[Scaaar]

Yes, I am controlling because I hope the woman I am dating is not fukking other men before she thinks we are serious or a couple. You dudes are some cucks for real.

"I mean, we have been dating for 4 weeks but so what she is getting her back blown out by other men while seeing me? I don't care she probably is about to fukk another man right after i took her to a restaurant, I'm not insecure. I could pick her up from his house after he just nutted on her face, I don't own her!"

Some of the most bytch made shyt i have ever heard. I am not usually on that timing but the cuck alarm has been ringing all through this thread.

The only person around here that's a cuck is y'all. Because again y'all are constantly worried about another man's d*ck and what he is or isn't doing with it when there is a literal female in front of you. You're supposed to be getting to know her but all you're fixated on is if another dude was knocking her down and then you got graphic on top of it . Y'all need to just pack it up and just come out the closet. It's obvious you're more interested in whoever she was or wasn't having $ex with than you actually are of her

 

[num123]

irrelevant.

i done fukked dozens of women in my life. if i am in a relationship with a chick am I going to randomly tell her that shyt? no.

people withold information from their dates and partners all the time. certain things are on a need to know, dont ask, dont tell basis.

And that is the problem. If you think what you are doing is not wrong, then why not be upfront about it? You do not have to be vulgar, just state you are seeing other people while you see her. What is the problem with that?

We know what the problem is, why people will not tell the people they are dating they are fukking other people but let's play stupid.

 

[Ohene]

And that is the problem. If you think what you are doing is not wrong, then why not be upfront about it? You do not have to be vulgar, just state you are seeing other people while you see her. What is the problem with that?

We know what the problem is, why people will not tell the people they are dating they are fukking other people but let's play stupid.

people's feelings are hurt all the time by things done that are not necessarily wrong. you dont do it not because you think its wrong but because you have tact and respect for peoples feelings or emotions.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

If me and her wasn't in a serious committed relationship. I don't give a f*ck what she did before I locked her. She's with me now in the present and future that's all I care about. Y'all sound insecure, controlling, and cornballs trying to dictate what a chick was or wasn't doing before you. Y'all just can't stop thinking about another man's meat....even with a chic you're actively dating/pursuing That's how I know a lot of y'all on this site ain't the nikkas y'all swear y'all think you are talking like this

Someone in this thread said they automatically thought that the dude who cracked her after the date "didn't want" her and as a result he would feel like second choice and therefore didn't want her either.

They are making dating decisions off what men they don't even know want or don't want.

It obvious the opinions of other men is the most important factor when they date.

 

[num123]

The only person around here that's a cuck is y'all. Because again y'all are constantly worried about another man's d*ck and what he is or isn't doing with it when there is a literal female in front of you. You're supposed to be getting to know her but all you're fixated on is if another dude was knocking her down and then you got graphic on top of it . Y'all need to just pack it up and just come out the closet. It's obvious you're more interested in whoever she was or wasn't having $ex with than you actually are of her

Yes, we are cucks because we care that the women that we are dating are not fukking other men while we are dating. Non-cuck behavior is not caring if the the woman you have been dating for a month or more is still getting her cheeks clapped by other men, right.

You dudes have weird, i am done.