Hours after 1st Date She Let Another Man Hit | Boyfriend finds out 4 Months Later

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Someone in this thread said they automatically thought that the dude who cracked her after the date "didn't want" her and as a result he would feel like second choice and therefore didn't want her either.

They are making dating decisions off what men they don't even know want or don't want.

It obvious the opinions of other men is the most important factor when they date.
And they're the main ones that swear they want traditional patriarchy back. It's some questionable dudes on this site but a lot of them are just insecure and lack self esteem. All that machismo and bravado they have on this site is a front that they live for the male gaze and male validation. These boyz sweet :scust: :mjlol:
 

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Yes, we are cucks because we care that the women that we are dating are not fukking other men while we are dating. Non-cuck behavior is not caring if the the woman you have been dating for a month or more is still getting her cheeks clapped by other men, right.

You dudes have weird, i am done.
That's all I needed to hear.

You went on the FIRST date and you insecure psychos trying to already control what she got going on before you spend your money on the meal. :what:
 

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I already posted about this in another thread but the female I’m currently dating when I first linked with her around maybe date #3 I had drove to her house to pick her up and needed to use the bathroom and she had a sz.12 shoe and a bunch of men’s clothes in her apartment.

He was one his way out I was on my way in

:manny:

I’ll continue to say these females are never not fukkin somebody they’re all going.. just enjoy it while it last.
 

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I meannnn, if you wanted to smash something and you knew there was a guarantee a text away and y'all only been on one date ?

The problem is he found out, if I found out I'd be tight too, damn why people can't shut the fukk up

How the fukk did he find out is the next question

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Yes, we are cucks because we care that the women that we are dating are not fukking other men while we are dating. Non-cuck behavior is not caring if the the woman you have been dating for a month or more is still getting her cheeks clapped by other men, right.

You dudes have weird, i am done.
It was one date.

Nobody is official after one date. You don’t know anyone’s intentions from one date. There is no loyalty needed on either side.

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It was one date.

Nobody is official after one date. You don’t know anyone’s intentions from one date. There is no loyalty needed on either side.

:dahell:
Tell me something, if that was the case then why don't people that feel that way tell their dates that? If that is how you feel then let it be known. Everyone that is fukking other people regardless of if they are dating someone know the reason for that, let's not play stupid.

Let a woman tell the average man she has been dating for a few weeks that she has been fukking other men at the same time, see how that plays out. Let a man that meets up with a woman on a first date and when she asks who is he texting, he says it is this other girl he is about to hit after the date.

People that think that way don't do that because if they did they know they would get almost nothing but bad responses, so if that is the case then why even date at all? Just call up a woman you are fukking from time to time, hit it and move to another fukk buddy.
 
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Tell me something, if that was the case then why don't people that feel that way tell their dates that? If that is how you feel then let it be known. Everyone that is fukking other people regardless of if they are dating someone know the reason for that, let's not play stupid.

Let a woman tell the average man she has been dating for a few weeks that she has been fukking other men at the same time, see how that plays out. Let a man that meets up with a woman on a first date and when she asks who is he texting, he says it is this other girl he is about to hit after the date.

People that think that way don't do that because if they did they know they would get almost nothing but bad responses, so if that is the case then why even date at all? Just call up a woman you are fukking from time to time, hit it and move to another fukk buddy.

You don’t need to know that. Unless it’s something like bisexuality, porn, OF, stripper, escort, why do you need to know a person you went on ONE date with know you have a FWB. When become official, then it matters. I could see if she slept with dude the night after they made it official. But until then, she is not your girl. If that’s how you feel, then establish exclusivity at the end of the date.
 

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You don’t need to know that. Unless it’s something like bisexuality, porn, OF, stripper, escort, why do you need to know a person you went on ONE date with know you have a FWB. When become official, then it matters. I could see if she slept with dude the night after they made it official. But until then, she is not your girl. If that’s how you feel, then establish exclusivity at the end of the date.
So again, what is exclusive to one person is not to another. For some people, unless they are married it is not serious. For some not until you move in, etc..... So unless you are on the same page with someone all that shyt is subjective.

What some people do not understand or can not conceive, is that there are people out there not fukking anything and anyone at a moment's notice. Not everyone has random women or men in their contacts just in case they need some sex. Not everyone is playing around with dating. If you are dating just to fukk then good for you, but if you are dating to find someone then you should have some control, because what is cool for you is most likely not going to be for the person you are with.
 

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so yall nikkas just cut off all available p*ssy the first time time you go out with a chick huh

go ahead and quote this shyt with a lie lol

nikka no!

How TF you nikkas don't get it?! :what:

It ain't that she went a fukked another dude, it's the fact she AINT let him fukk and he the one wining and dining her! She can do whatever she want after she leave his crib since they ain't exclusive!

That's foul. And Idgaf what you nikkas say. A woman playing coy with me while I'm giving her the "boyfriend experience" but she letting other nikkas smash is getting bushed expeditiously.

Call it what you want, I'm grown. That namecalling shyt dont phase me.:yeshrug:
 
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