Houston pastor refuses to bury 93-year-old woman who didn’t tithe enough while in a coma
David Edwards
25 Nov 2014 at 12:43 ET
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Barbara Day says that a Houston pastor refused to bury her mother (KRIV)
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A Houston pastor has come under fire for refusing to bury a 93-year-old woman who had been a member of his church for 50 years but had not tithed enough as her death neared.
Barbara Day told KRIV that she was devastated by the way pastor Walter F. Houston treated her when she contacted him about a funeral at Fourth Missionary Baptist Church for her mother, Olivia Blair.
“It was like the last insult in the world, there was nothing else that I could do for my mommy but funeralize her in the church that she loved and worshiped all of her life, even as a little girl,” Day said, explaining that Houston told her that Blair “had not paid her dues, and she had not attended the church in recent years.”
“For the last two years, my mother has been in either a nursing home or she’s been in a hospital,” she pointed out. “And the last few months, she was in a coma!”
Day said that she could not understand why Houston would force her to find another place for the burial after her mother had supported him for so many years, and her stepfather had also been buried at the church.
“There’s no explanation for anybody that has been paying dues for a church that long, for him to make me have to roll my mother’s body around town, and somebody finally picks her up and says, ‘Yeah, we’ll do the best we can,’” Day insisted. “They knew she was ill! They don’t care! All they care about is getting money money money money money!”
“Even retail stores give people more respect than that,” she continued. “I don’t understand why we’ve become so commercialized with religion! What does this have to do with God? Why can’t I give my mother her last wish to be funeralized in a church that she loved so much?”
Tyrone Jacques of PimpPreacher.com, who first reported Day’s story, told KRIV’s Isiah Carey that he “pleaded” with Pastor Houston to change his mind, but he refused. Houston later explained to Carey that Blair was no longer a member of the church because she had not supported it financially in the last 10 years.
Day, however, said that her mother had supported the church up until two years ago, but then she became ill and was unable to attend Fourth Missionary or any church.
“I asked the pastor, I said, ‘Well, why didn’t someone go check on her? Why didn’t someone go reach out to her?’” Jacques recalled. “And his reply to me was it was up to the family to notify him. And the comment that really set us off was, if the family cared so much, why didn’t they at least send a dollar to the church a week to reserve her membership?”
On his website, Jacques noted that he had offered to pay for the funeral, and to have it on a day the church was already closed.
“Sir even though your church is closed on Friday, and I have offered to pay the cost to have this funeral in your church, you’re still refusing to allow this funeral for a member who has been a part of this ministry for 50 years?” he asked Houston.
“Membership has its privileges,” the pastor reportedly replied.
In memory of Day’s mother, PimpPreacher.com is sponsoring the Olivia Blair Project to “focus on the abuses of Tithing and the horrific financial trauma it inflicts on the elderly and those living on fixed incomes.”
David Edwards
25 Nov 2014 at 12:43 ET
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Barbara Day says that a Houston pastor refused to bury her mother (KRIV)
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A Houston pastor has come under fire for refusing to bury a 93-year-old woman who had been a member of his church for 50 years but had not tithed enough as her death neared.
Barbara Day told KRIV that she was devastated by the way pastor Walter F. Houston treated her when she contacted him about a funeral at Fourth Missionary Baptist Church for her mother, Olivia Blair.
“It was like the last insult in the world, there was nothing else that I could do for my mommy but funeralize her in the church that she loved and worshiped all of her life, even as a little girl,” Day said, explaining that Houston told her that Blair “had not paid her dues, and she had not attended the church in recent years.”
“For the last two years, my mother has been in either a nursing home or she’s been in a hospital,” she pointed out. “And the last few months, she was in a coma!”
Day said that she could not understand why Houston would force her to find another place for the burial after her mother had supported him for so many years, and her stepfather had also been buried at the church.
“There’s no explanation for anybody that has been paying dues for a church that long, for him to make me have to roll my mother’s body around town, and somebody finally picks her up and says, ‘Yeah, we’ll do the best we can,’” Day insisted. “They knew she was ill! They don’t care! All they care about is getting money money money money money!”
“Even retail stores give people more respect than that,” she continued. “I don’t understand why we’ve become so commercialized with religion! What does this have to do with God? Why can’t I give my mother her last wish to be funeralized in a church that she loved so much?”
Tyrone Jacques of PimpPreacher.com, who first reported Day’s story, told KRIV’s Isiah Carey that he “pleaded” with Pastor Houston to change his mind, but he refused. Houston later explained to Carey that Blair was no longer a member of the church because she had not supported it financially in the last 10 years.
Day, however, said that her mother had supported the church up until two years ago, but then she became ill and was unable to attend Fourth Missionary or any church.
“I asked the pastor, I said, ‘Well, why didn’t someone go check on her? Why didn’t someone go reach out to her?’” Jacques recalled. “And his reply to me was it was up to the family to notify him. And the comment that really set us off was, if the family cared so much, why didn’t they at least send a dollar to the church a week to reserve her membership?”
On his website, Jacques noted that he had offered to pay for the funeral, and to have it on a day the church was already closed.
“Sir even though your church is closed on Friday, and I have offered to pay the cost to have this funeral in your church, you’re still refusing to allow this funeral for a member who has been a part of this ministry for 50 years?” he asked Houston.
“Membership has its privileges,” the pastor reportedly replied.
In memory of Day’s mother, PimpPreacher.com is sponsoring the Olivia Blair Project to “focus on the abuses of Tithing and the horrific financial trauma it inflicts on the elderly and those living on fixed incomes.”
