How are people on the coli keeping up with every negative thing the opposite sex is doing or saying

[MeachTheMonster]

Because the Internet allows people to turn their own insecurities into hate for others.

Like @Wild self has not had success with the opposite sex, so he posts a bunch of generlazations and stereotypes as to why it's their fault instead of improving himself

 

[LeflaurLeflahEshkoshka]

I just avoid those threads. I can't take all that negative and miserable shyt. It's always the same threads/posters too, day in day out. I wonder how miserable/pathetic you have to be to argue or troll on the same topic everyday.

 

[Reginald Noble]

I rarely see these arguments manifest IRL so I don't give them much thought in TLR.

I don't say anything on here that I don't say IRL to fam or friends etc. My tone may be less trollish but I am straightforward about the relations between man and woman in our community. It's fukked up and really there's no way to fix it - so I did my own thing got my やまとなでしこ and that was that. I advocate for most brothers who don't "fit the mold" to do the same. At the end of the day there is a schism in our community and if you don't fit in and can't find someone compatible you got to leave, that's all there is to it.

The slave master makes sure only "real nikkas and bytches" are on the plantation - The rest of us got to find our own home.

 

[Wild self]

I don't say anything on here that I don't say IRL to fam or friends etc. My tone may be less trollish but I am straightforward about the relations between man and woman in our community. It's fukked up and really there's no way to fix it - so I did my own thing got my やまとなでしこ and that was that. I advocate for most brothers who don't "fit the mold" to do the same. At the end of the day there is a schism in our community and if you don't fit in and can't find someone compatible you got to leave, that's all there is to it.

The slave master makes sure only "real nikkas and bytches" are on the plantation - The rest of us got to find our own home.

Yeah, that stigma of being a "real one" limits us from our potential. Hell, if you don't fit in a rigid paradigm, many brehettes won't even look at you.

 

[Reginald Noble]

Yeah, that stigma of being a "real one" limits us from our potential. Hell, if you don't fit in a rigid paradigm, many brehettes won't even look at you.

Don't get me wrong a lot of Women from other cultures can be materialistic, selfish etc. So you got to dodge bullets abroad as well but here it's like Neo dodging agent Smith 24 bullets at once vs. abroad (or dealing with foreign Women from certain countries here) you maybe trying to dodge 4 bullets at most.

So there are levels to this shyt but I feel that Women from traditional cultures get over that bad boy shyt after high school ends and real world hits whereas Black Women in America turn up well into their 40's with children in tow.

My pops is in his 50's, good job gonna get a pension. His child support will end for my half-sis in a couple of years. He doesn't want to get married again so his options are pretty wide. The only problem is he is only attracted to Black Women with big titties. So the problem is he's tried BW from Carribean but they are too much drama. There are not a lot of Africans in NYC so African Women are not an option. The few ones he has encountered they hate him with a passion for some reason. So what do Men in this circumstance do? There are plenty of Women of other races interested in him (even Indian for christ sakes) but you can't change attraction that quickly.

Thank god I don't really have a preference. Otherwise I would be miserable right now.