on the real i almost DIDNT holler at her for this very reason. when i 1st saw her she was sitting down. she got up to go to the restroom or something and she walked near me and i was like
cuz she had on stilettos. im only 5'11 so she was like 6'2 with the heels on. i said fukk it and hollered anyway and got the number
here is the complete story and how you dropped the ball.
you should have kept the same type of energy as when you hollered.
spontaneous and bold out of nowhere,...
especially since, ol girl was tall./
all tall girls have low self esteem in general, and want the guy who was so mesmerized and in control of his lust.
he was able to immediately go from wonderlust to spitting game.
as these type of females, typically had no attention coming up and grew into being attractive.
so, your approach worked, cause you fit right into the framework for her so-called dreamboat.
mixed with a potion of low self esteem and physical inadequacies.
when you spitgame the first time and got her number,..
she bought it, cause you were that bold spontaneous quick acting lustful guy.
when you asked for a date,..you became the courting beta....
QUESTION:
how many days did you wait to call,...
if you say you waited some days to call,..you messed up, too.
especially in this instance, because the way and style you said you grabbed ol girl's number.
it said you were sure of yourself.
when you waited.
plus, you said you wanted to take her out on a date,..you said you wanted to take it slow and court her.
when, no female in general after the internet date age, takes anything slow with who they are feeling.
this is the day and age of,......
multiple lust at first sight....
where, every girl has had multiple one night whirlwind flings, to one night stands turned long term romances, and actual commitments.
one night stands are how females really get down.
or should I say the one night opportunity is how all females who are about shyt for real get down, now.
females, really not no punks about sex..
this is not the nineties,..and if you with a female that make you feel like the prude nineties...
run away........
this is 2013, you are competing with females.
who base their entire lives off of their past relationships with whom they were courted by.
which means,..most females are looking for a heavy lust filled spontaneous fun adventure time type guy who is live from jump.
no female wants a conservative guy,..
they are all swapping, those owl neck girl,....oh, dis nikka I JUST met[EMPHASIS ON JUST MET] and fukked was such and such......
when you started talking about dating, and the weekend.
you just went from the spontaneous one night stand type,...
the,..he gon blow my back out guy.
to the simp she can take her time learning to like, if she feels like it and she never will.
simply because you changed from,.....
the guy who was so attracted he spontaneously made a move.
to a second guessing low self esteem simp.
who still has to plan a weekend style date to feel comfortable.
remember this is a vet,...
meaning any woman with kids over twenty six.
these types have been in relationships and gravitate towards guys who know how to have day to day social swag with their female.
which means she already learned how to be comfortable and build a home with a guy.
she is looking for the immediate quick fix guy.
who fits in socially, with no problem straight off gp.
she actually suffers from phantom high self esteem,....
as she really thinks she knows males well enough, to know how to be with them.
in the case of the chick you met...she was married and got divorced.
so, she is completely offkey as to having a relationship compass.
she has no idea how to choose a new guy,.....
plus, she has outdated game and still used outdated game to get on.
real talk,...
if you not smashing a vet for the first time on an early weekday....
you really not doing what you thought you were up to.
either that,..or you dealing with a female with no sexual maturity or security.
so, the sex is going to be huff, and not worth it in the short or long term anyway.
vets get down when kids are away,..which means all times of the day, and night.
if she was on shyt.....
she would have been trying her best to get away.
plus, she would not have sonned you concerning intimacy.
to the point you had to go the way of asking....
you taking her out on a date, said you not about trying to really fukk her.
plus, you are not good at being the social relationship style guy she could possibly institute into her home life.
art barr
NIGEL McGUINNESS : chu dropped't the bawl!!!
you may be right breh. i doubt if ima hit her up but there's that curiousity of me wondering if she's waiting on me to call her. like she's waiting on me to call her (like she told me to) but i dont cuz i think she's not feeling me when in fact she does
you right, damn ts is below the friend zone
