How BP Handle Racist Confrontations - Serious Discussion

[SubZero]

No matter how folks are projecting equality, the society still views the female as the weaker sex, at least physically. So a black man getting into it with a white woman would be viewed as a bully/threat. Hence it's always better to let women deal with women.

Even when I was in a relationship, my girl used to handle it for me, when it comes to other chicks. But now, my sisters do it for me.

The man messed up and he should have stayed out of it.

 

[HabitualChiller]

What if you claim the same thing? I can say he/she spit in my face too.

That's when perception comes into play. A white officer will lean towards believing a white person. You may be fukked either way

Or hope that some witnesses are on your side...

 

[Matt504]

Don't be so judgmental. What's your advice? First, are you Black?

I'm not being judgemental, I'm simply pointing out the obvious fact that Black people are not white and expecting to get the same treatment as white people in incidents where a white person has to make the final decision is irresponsible within the context of the system we exist in.

The best advice is to remove yourself from the situation.

 

[ImmaGetJoeClarkArrested]

There have been a lot of discussions about racism as of late but I have seen little discussion as how BP should personally handle ourselves in these types of situations.

Recently a family member got called a n*gg*r on some random road rage incident by a WW in a parking lot. Her husband confronted the woman and they verbally went back and forth. Of course WW plays the victim and the husband and wife end up leaving the scene. Of course the WW called the police. The husband ended up having to go to court. He got off light and only has to do 6 weeks of angry management and all charges will be dropped. The whole situation was bullshyt . They handled it all wrong. Never brought up their own charges or stayed to talk to the police b/c "they didn't want to deal with it and wanted to be over." Yet the racist bytch is sitting at home laughing with no consequence for her behavior.

Anyway, this is what I have learned with dealing with racist:

1. Try to never get visibly upset
2. Record their behavior
3. Call the police first

I told them instead of going back and forth they should have waited until she got out the car, got her license number, called 911 and reported her as being irate, yelling racial slurs and threatening to do harm to others with a firearm all while walking into the mall. Situation would have ended a whole lot differently.

Anyway, please share tips on how you successfully dealt with racist incidents.

I've been called a ****** twice in my life and did the same thing both times

I get in their face I get really loud and I call them a ******

It does 2 things....it makes them really confused and they get shook and don't know how to react....and it gives them the opportunity to call me a ****** back

Both times they didn't call me a ****** again

That way I was able to show my dominance and avoid snuffing them at the same time....however providing them the full opportunity to get knocked the fukk out by repeating themselves

 

[GreenGhxst]

To be fair I've never had a cac call me ******. I've had people act awkward as fukk around me which I think was some racial shyt. I've had people say presumptuous racist things, like a white boy saying why is he acting black. I'll check it and correct it, they're usually on some, "oh no I didn't mean that". I got into it with my Philippine co-worker last week, he likes to talk about politics with me, I work security so it's not like I'm corporate, we chop it up sometimes and he's 75 so he always has good stories.Anyways, he said why do black people get mad when somebody says, "hey you're ****** this, you're a ****** that, it's just a word you know, the Koreans used to call us apes in the Philippines" I turned up and had to tell him not to use that word around me and how his statement was utter bullshyt, but I never had anyone calling me ******. It's either slick shyt you don't realize in the moment or white people saying discriminatory shyt about other blacks like I'm not black and I'm cosigning it. shyt I never really dealt with that type of shyt growing up because I went to majority black schools, but when I left Louisiana for Texas at 17 I started noticing that shyt. 24 now.. especially after I graduated. These cacs get real comfortable around me sometimes, I used to work at taco cabana fresh out of high school and was real cool with this Hispanic white bytch. This white bytch told me, "those black guys are ******s, but you're a good black man, unlike them." I was so shocked I didn't say shyt, I blame my immaturity. I was 19, and it was just a car of black dudes ordering food and driving through the drive thru. Racist c*nt. Had a midget cac overnight shift lead run to the back when he got really frustrated with the drunk black people coming from the club ordering food at the drive thru, he'd run to the back yell ******s loud as fukk and punch boxes, he would always come back and apologize, thinking back I should've reported his fukkin ass. But immaturity.
If I were to be called a ****** I'm not sure how I'd react, can I snuff this motherfukker and get away without police intervention is my first question? IF not try to push their anger and see if they wanna put hands on me. Besides that say my piece and walk away. fukk can you do though? I was thinking about buying pepper spray so I could spray a bytch and walk off, best part is they can't see me I still may do that, money been tight lately.

 

[Jesus Is Lord]

I'm not being judgemental, I'm simply pointing out the obvious fact that Black people are not white and expecting to get the same treatment as white people in incidents where a white person has to make the final decision is irresponsible within the context of the system we exist in.

The best advice is to remove yourself from the situation.

A stand has to be taken. We don't have to tolerate that anymore.

 

[Neil Tyson]

The last chick who was posting racist shyt on Facebook. I got into an argument with her, she was cute though.

So two days later I invited her to some coffee place because I used to chill with her a while back and she was mad cool I wanted to know where all that shyt was coming from. We settled our differences at her place later.

 

[Micky Mikey]

if i find out where they live and have a good exit plan

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

if i find out where they live and have a good exit plan

How many cacs you killed?

 

[Dzali OG]

Firstly, you have to remind yourself that you're equal if not superior to a cac. It's similar to a child calling an adult a name. You're superior to that child and handle that situation as such.

If they call you a name, you call them a name. And I try and make it as filthy as possible. Something like a filthy, lice infested, dog-fukking, cave beast.

It's a game to see if you can trick them into touching or threatening you first, giving you license to tap that jaw.

And keep in mind them saying the nword is their inability to pronounce niger river.

If they keep it verbal, you keep it verbal.

 

[Remote]

What I look like calling another man for help, minus well call him daddy then




In Harlem there's only one way to handle racism from cacs b...

 

[Charlie Hustle]

Instead of getting in a verbal confrontation with belligerent cac's try your best to find as much personal information about them as you can....


Do what thou wilt



Please be advised Charlie Hustle doesn't encourage violence or destruction of personal property or creating fake profiles on STD dating sides of people you have confrontations with.

 

[An ashy lil fap hand]

it's really best not to say anything. I have the luxury of going to places where I'm normally known, so when stuff happens, I can easily have people removed. Unless someone is physically harming me (or attempting), I just ignore them. I will say that even though I don't normally show it to them, the shyt makes me mad as hell. Like, violence is the first thought that crosses my mind but I don't want to get caught up. I let it go because eventually, they are gonna come across the wrong person.

Funny thing about me personally, a lot of the white people I meet don't understand the status that I have (not bragging,because it aint much). They wonder why certain things don't come their way after talking slick in front of me. Unless you really know, you never know who you're talking to.

 

[TRFG]

I'd just give the police her description and they tell cops she's waving a gun around threatening people

 

[Neuromancer]

This has never happened to me. But if it indeed did I'd call the male a cuckold. They hate that cause they fear black penis. I'd tell the woman that I'm sure he has a dog somewhere to fukk and keep it moving. I could call the police but as a,black man even one of my stature I don't trust them to be bipartisan.