How can I change my circle of friends?

[Turk]

The people I fw rarely show me the loyalty and love I show them. I've done so much for nikkas and I never even mention it to them.

Paying for nikkas cars to get fixed after it got shot up, helping bail nikkas out, giving out loans, just being helpful to nikkas if they ever need it....and I can't even get an occasional "Hey, what's up?" text

I been hanging out with the same group of people for what seems like forever, and this shyt is getting pretty dead. A lot of nikkas aren't even really doing shyt with their lives. I need to expand my circle

 

[KOOL-AID]

Delete they line dats what I did, we have similar backgrounds tho I ain't fixing a nikka whip or bailing them out before u help anyone think if the situation were reversed wld they help u

 

[DrX]

yeah man, gotta leave nikkas behind, because their habits will indoctrinate you, and your life will pass you by...

U should find out what u want to do and go in that direction and hang out with like people in your industry. Always hang out with ambitious people and self reliant people...

dont become nikka stew, nikka stew is a term that I created, and anybody that hang with them will become the ingredients

 

[Music Fiend]

No clue breh. But I know what worked for me.

Only thing that helped me in that situation was learning to meet new ppl on my outings with my old crew and get closer to them.

As well as learning to introduce random ppl you aren't really that cool with to others.

Something about introducing new ppl to old friends... It worked for me like a barter, they'd introduce me to their ppl and the cycle continues

 

[Turk]

Delete they line dats what I did, we have similar backgrounds tho I ain't fixing a nikka whip or bailing them out before u help anyone think if the situation were reversed wld they help u

I just have a kind heart, too kind a heart

 

[Tilesp4p]

Great thread. I think alot of people especially in this day and age lack the ability to network. The internet has made people socially awkward, but the interent can also help people to meet new social contacts and expand their network. You have websites like "meetup.com" where you can go to diff events all around your city and some events pertain to a specific hobby or industry and its a good way to make connections. Also just being more consciously friendly. For example I post alot of memes on FB and when someone (usually a cute female) I dont know in real life comments "lmao" I use that as an opener to start a convo. Social skills and networking can get you more p*ssy, more money, more friends and just an overall better network...shyt should be taught ins school IMO
You got alot of nikkas claiming to be hard because they "aint friendly" but everyone in the real world who ever touched toes in the field will tell you thats how you meet better connects (connects in terms of w.e you looking for not necessarily narcotics ).
****TLDR :
- Join groups, go to meet ups.
- be more friendly
-use network for connects,p*ssy, power...w.e floats your boat.

 

[GreenGrass]

why you giving out money in the first place? that's how they are using you. just delete their contacts and make yourself distant. your life will improve. start a new business or go find a hobby.

 

[Turk]

why you giving out money in the first place? that's how they are using you. just delete their contacts and make yourself distant. your life will improve. start a new business or go find a hobby.

Cuz we're bros or at least supposed to be. We got history.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

As an adult it's mostly impossible

You can get new friends but it's very hard to get a new social circle

Maybe with women's it's easier
Or nikkas in unique fields

 

[DrX]

Cuz we're bros or at least supposed to be. We got history.

naw u gotta get this shyt outta your head man...friendship is suppose to be mutual, mutual love...if its one way, theyre using you

and people will chew u up and sallow u if u allow them too....actions speak louder than words, and if your homie aint showing u love back, thats just a vulture in disguise

 

[Scholar]

You gotta make sure you're grinding yourself too when reaching out to new folks. Because if you are trying to link up with new friends who are grinding but you aren't they could view that as you trying to leak off of their potential success

 

[Swirv]

Put their numbers under don't pick up and keep it at hi and bye when you see them. They'll talk shyt but fukk em

 

[Prynce]

We the same akhi

I show a lot of love and loyalty to people and it is rarely reciprocated
My closet homie only hit me when he needs a favor and I still hold him down based off the love I have for him

 

[KravenMorehead™]

 

[Worthless Loser]

Time to change your environment. Changing your environment =seeing new people and meeting new potential friends.