How can I change my circle of friends?

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Sorry to break the news, but your friends aren't really your friends. Some people are real evil out here. They will analyze and criticize you until the day you die. They are snakes. once they stop talking to you, they start to talk about you.

you need to destroy the ego. destroy that hood mentality.

once you start to change your life around for the better, old friends will appear out of no where as they will notice changes in you.

focus on your self. make that money.

learn the differences between a 'friend' and a 'acquaintance'
 

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Sorry to break the news, but your friends aren't really your friends. Some people are real evil out here. They will analyze and criticize you until the day you die. They are snakes. once they stop talking to you, they start to talk about you.

you need to destroy the ego. destroy that hood mentality.

once you start to change your life around for the better, old friends will appear out of no where as they will notice changes in you.

focus on your self. make that money.

learn the differences between a 'friend' and a 'acquaintance'
This....good game....
 

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Man if I would've fukked with the nikkas I grew up with now, I would be dealing and in and out of jail. Once I went to private school had no choice but dead all them no good clowns.

Now I can't front it's all love when I see them and they respect my choices to stay away from there dealings but I don't even chop it up with them like that. Nothing really to talk about. I show them respect which is always important so they do the same.
 

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1st thing you got to do is change your environment.

While doing that you got to be ok with being alone or not having something to do or someone to hang out with every weekend.
 

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I'll show you how to cut people off without actually having to cut people off in 3 easy steps.

1. Create a plan or goal that you want to achieve. Preferably one that requires group economics or investing money. LEGALLY.
2. Gather them together and tell your friends that you doing a complete 180. If you smoke, drink, party, and get girls with them. Say you getting away from that life even if you not.
3. Tell them about your investment/group economics plan and offer them the chance to invest in it.

That'll weed out your friends list real quick. You can find 100 people to turn up with you but can barely find 1 to go into business with you.
 

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The people I fw rarely show me the loyalty and love I show them. I've done so much for nikkas and I never even mention it to them.

Paying for nikkas cars to get fixed after it got shot up, helping bail nikkas out, giving out loans, just being helpful to nikkas if they ever need it....and I can't even get an occasional "Hey, what's up?" text :wow:

I been hanging out with the same group of people for what seems like forever, and this shyt is getting pretty dead. A lot of nikkas aren't even really doing shyt with their lives. I need to expand my circle :francis:

you don't need to expand your circle .. you need to create a NEW circle...
 

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Mac and Mia was spittin real shyt. If you focus on yourself and make some positive changes and goals, they'll stop fukking with you. They'll hit you with the "Oh you think you too good" line. The real ones will still fukk with you, and understand. Might even want to come up too. Seen it happen a lot.
 

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I'll show you how to cut people off without actually having to cut people off in 3 easy steps.

1. Create a plan or goal that you want to achieve. Preferably one that requires group economics or investing money. LEGALLY.
2. Gather them together and tell your friends that you doing a complete 180. If you smoke, drink, party, and get girls with them. Say you getting away from that life even if you not.
3. Tell them about your investment/group economics plan and offer them the chance to invest in it.

That'll weed out your friends list real quick. You can find 100 people to turn up with you but can barely find 1 to go into business with you.
Sounds great :leon:
 

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This is something that I'm dealing with. I cut alot of old friends off after realizing they weren't helping me move forward and that they weren't real friends to begin with. I changed numbers, stopped contact, trimmed down my social media and that was it. I find it easier when I'm not living in my hometown (like now, I live in DC which is 2-3 hours away). But whenever I come home they somehow hear I'm back in town and try to reach out via my parents and I have to put up the stiff arm again :camby: I will never return to my home state but, I want to eventually settle down in a state that's only 40 minutes from my hometown. I hope it's far enough that they stay where they are and don't come calling.
 

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I'll show you how to cut people off without actually having to cut people off in 3 easy steps.

1. Create a plan or goal that you want to achieve. Preferably one that requires group economics or investing money. LEGALLY.
2. Gather them together and tell your friends that you doing a complete 180. If you smoke, drink, party, and get girls with them. Say you getting away from that life even if you not.
3. Tell them about your investment/group economics plan and offer them the chance to invest in it.

That'll weed out your friends list real quick. You can find 100 people to turn up with you but can barely find 1 to go into business with you.

NEVER tell your friends you're doing new things.... Once you talk to them they're (a) talk down about your new moves (b) try to talk you out it (c) will try to hang around and F up your plans..

You gotta just do it and either adjust or once they see you stopped talking and moved on they'll move on too.


I had to do that before in my life .. you gotta just cut them off cold turkey
 

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NEVER tell your friends you're doing new things.... Once you talk to them they're (a) talk down about your new moves (b) try to talk you out it (c) will try to hang around and F up your plans..

You gotta just do it and either adjust or once they see you stopped talking and moved on they'll move on too.


I had to do that before in my life .. you gotta just cut them off cold turkey

He's trying to shake his old friends. The quickest way to shake people. The easiest way to do that is ask for money to for a business venture. People will avoid you like the plague. Those that don't you'll know are down for whatever cause you're trying to accomplish
 
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