I was dating a guy a total of 4 weeks before I started "acting up." I have analyzed the whole thing and I see his view point even though he is a major a$$hole, and I dont feel I was wrong.
Long story short he got to the point where he felt he courted me enough and now we could do sleep over house dates. Honestly I dont have an issue with that, but my bestie did.
So what does my bestie have to do with it?
Well we had been double dating the whole time. His best friend and mine linked up but they didn't move as quickly as we did. She wasnt down for the house dates and he didn't want his boy to feel left out. He wanted me to convince her to come and I couldnt. He kept forcing the issue so I cancelled the meet up entirely. We didnt talk for 3 days after b/c he was mad at me.
The next weekend we had planned a singular date and he stood me up. Not only had he stood me up but its been a whole week since we've spoken, he wont return my calls or text. I know hes purposely doing this as punishment, and its not cool. Ive stopped calling.
Mean while my bestie and his are getting closer. They wanna go out this weekend and I have been invited along. I am assuming my guy will be there too and that he will act like everything is normal and great between us because hes a conceited a$$hole.
What will feed his ego the least? Not showing up to the double date, or going and acting normal and unaffected by his behavior?
I dont even want to date him anymore because he is cruel, but I dont want him to feel like he broke me or I am sweating him. What should I do?
Long story short he got to the point where he felt he courted me enough and now we could do sleep over house dates. Honestly I dont have an issue with that, but my bestie did.
So what does my bestie have to do with it?
Well we had been double dating the whole time. His best friend and mine linked up but they didn't move as quickly as we did. She wasnt down for the house dates and he didn't want his boy to feel left out. He wanted me to convince her to come and I couldnt. He kept forcing the issue so I cancelled the meet up entirely. We didnt talk for 3 days after b/c he was mad at me.
The next weekend we had planned a singular date and he stood me up. Not only had he stood me up but its been a whole week since we've spoken, he wont return my calls or text. I know hes purposely doing this as punishment, and its not cool. Ive stopped calling.
Mean while my bestie and his are getting closer. They wanna go out this weekend and I have been invited along. I am assuming my guy will be there too and that he will act like everything is normal and great between us because hes a conceited a$$hole.
What will feed his ego the least? Not showing up to the double date, or going and acting normal and unaffected by his behavior?
I dont even want to date him anymore because he is cruel, but I dont want him to feel like he broke me or I am sweating him. What should I do?
