How can I help my half brother, brehs? (SAD THREAD)

[flea]

You don't. That mfer don't love you. My half brother could care less if i lived or die

We have a great relationship but at the end of the day we both know we ain't got the same mom ​

 

[CakeEater]

"Got some advice my father all he told me was this....

nikka GET OFF YO' ASS IF YOU PLAN TO BE RICH"

 

[Cat piss martini]

Ever since our moms passed, he's been lost. Add to that his birth father is a complete scumbag piece of shyt who lied to him and left him out in the cold. Now he's almost 30 with a gf of over 10 years living with him in his aunt's place and she's the only one with a job He can't stay focused and whenever he gets an idea for a project musically (he wants to get back rapping) or video (he wants to be a director) he never finishes it I don't think he has motivation because I always see him on Facebook talking shyt on Ferguson, the government or conspiracy shyt Like I said, he's turning 30 next year and I don't want this to be his life. How can I help?

you gotta be white because no way
would somebody black call a sibling that was pushed from their
mother a half anything.
we do that to nikkas that got different mama's but
the same father.
*back on topic*
lead by example.....if youre on your shyt
show him the light.

 

[Hugs]

you gotta be white because no way would somebody black call a sibling that was pushed from their mother a half anything. we do that to nikkas that got different mama's but
the same father.

The dictionary defines a half brother as a sibling that shares one birth parent. Growing up my family just called him my brother.

 

[Cat piss martini]

The dictionary defines a half brother as a sibling that shares one birth parent. Growing up my family just called him my brother.

youre missing my point.....
you said (half brother/our mom)
just making a point that i've never met anyone
call a sibling that share a mama (a step).
we call each other (step) if we have different (mamas)
it's a black thing is my point..

 

[Taadow]

Tbh everything was fine and he had a job and his own house with a roommate until a year ago.

So wait a minute...wha happen to his job and house in one year?!?

I know y'alls moms didn't die and the chit evaporated...

 

[Hugs]

So wait a minute...wha happen to his job and house in one year?!?

I know y'alls moms didn't die and the chit evaporated...

He was working for his father and his business folded. His father had to move out of his house into his apartment and didn't get a room for my brother or giving him money to help him, basically doing everything short of saying

 

[Hugs]

youre missing my point.....
you said (half brother/our mom)
just making a point that i've never met anyone
call a sibling that share a mama (a step).
we call each other (step) if we have different (mamas)
it's a black thing is my point..

I still call him and consider him my brother
But I just didn't want sum cac saying "Don't you mean half-brother?"

 

[Taadow]

He was working for his father and his business folded. His father had to move out of his house into his apartment and didn't get a room for my brother or giving him money to help him, basically doing everything short of saying

Yikes...


...but dig - it seems like everybody in your fam has been holding his hand. Somehow, he needs inspiration
to go out in the snakepit and get his own chit...

 

[Blackking]

If u fukk his girl... then tell him about it....he may not speak to u for a lil over a year...

But I bet you he'll get his shyt together.

 

[Fillerguy]

Ever since our moms passed, he's been lost. Add to that his birth father is a complete scumbag piece of shyt who lied to him and left him out in the cold. Now he's almost 30 with a gf of over 10 years living with him in his aunt's place and she's the only one with a job He can't stay focused and whenever he gets an idea for a project musically (he wants to get back rapping) or video (he wants to be a director) he never finishes it I don't think he has motivation because I always see him on Facebook talking shyt on Ferguson, the government or conspiracy shyt Like I said, he's turning 30 next year and I don't want this to be his life. How can I help?

military

 

[Hugs]

military

 

[The5thLetter]

Is he willing to be helped? If he's complacent currently there's nothing u can do to help.
My older bro is doing the exact same shyt, but is coddled by his wife and our grandma. Leading by example didn't work, talking didn't either, so I washed my hands. He's grown

 

[Hugs]

Is he willing to be helped? If he's complacent currently there's nothing u can do to help.
My older bro is doing the exact same shyt, but is coddled by his wife and our grandma. Leading by example didn't work, talking didn't either, so I washed my hands. He's grown

I'm trying what I can do. I even helped write this nikka's movie Once I hit college he's just gonna have to deal with it himself, or annoy my aunt some more.

 

[The5thLetter]

I'm trying what I can do. I even helped write this nikka's movie Once I hit college he's just gonna have to deal with it himself, or annoy my aunt some more.

Don't waste ur time on his pipe dreams. Get your life in order, he'll be alright. Ppl usually get it together when they run out of options, and he prob doesn't feel he has to now cuz he has u, ur aunt and his girl